Our old patterns of dysfunction and addiction were really self-medication

Our old patterns of dysfunction and  addiction were really self-medication and the inevitable flight from reality into our self constructed escapist world of chaos and drama. We did not attempt do a “moral” inventory, that we believed will only replay our childhood traumas just by studying our morals, our own “badness” and hurtful behaviour.

The reasons are that the mere act of revisiting childhood trauma and the frozen self is a re-traumatising belief. That we have already been pre-programmed to come to believe firmly that we had no true self. We have learned at the ten stages that we were programmed to believe that in some cases we were condemned at birth to constantly replay and escape during our life.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com