As children we needed to acquire a basic birthright of truth.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjv1JOjnJjaRltdEza42aYJIml66F6-pHn9dc34ZESl3Wpe53YGHZc0Pw3QTxpvs-OoVLEUvD4x3Ih0WJGK_mYOAn9DY11AKJowbLDnmjYVlDrxCJ7DHDG2FyHv9rKBF_iIllH5KFo1I1lO/s1600/1-trauma123.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="614" data-original-width="522" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjv1JOjnJjaRltdEza42aYJIml66F6-pHn9dc34ZESl3Wpe53YGHZc0Pw3QTxpvs-OoVLEUvD4x3Ih0WJGK_mYOAn9DY11AKJowbLDnmjYVlDrxCJ7DHDG2FyHv9rKBF_iIllH5KFo1I1lO/s320/1-trauma123.jpg" width="272" /></a></div> <br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">As children we needed to acquire a</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> basic birthright of truth. Our grown caregivers </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> claimed to love us but often behaved differently. Our confusion as children is understandable: in needing to believe in the goodness of our parents we, in our dependency, had no choice but to doubt ourselves. They lied to us—and where they did we became dissociated. We became like they were. But now we are adults. We no longer live under their dissociated tyranny, however mild or extreme it was, or under the strangling social systems that daily support them. We have options. This is the privilege of finding our child still hidden within, and the privilege of the insight that comes with it. We again need truth and discover that when we are honest we do not die, but instead feel affirmed. This leads us to believe that the truth at our core our child within is more powerful than the menditions imposed upon us by our upbringing. We understand that with truth patience and perseverance we can bring our light of truth into all the dark unconscious recesses of our adult self and into all the paralysed sides of our banished personality. We know that we can become fully </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">conscious responsible adults.</span><br /> <div> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com</div> </div>

As children we needed to acquire a basic birthright of truth.

As children we needed to acquire a  basic birthright of truth. Our grown caregivers   claimed to love us but often behaved differently....

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We begin to see in the ten stages the false in our recovery relationships

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDFv4vXiC5yMcIcmmE05_shzRyvz209MVbljOw8N6jcRTMExFirpnrcxYkBAqqGITZW03bQy9LpnoxahlJIm2jHd806m0F3l4CXzoMnIF38QaKkQQ3Qf4RlhmZT5TMqbvmgwrTdY36Oh2i/s1600/1-11050822_597090743761003_8908973908707265896_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="316" data-original-width="355" height="284" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDFv4vXiC5yMcIcmmE05_shzRyvz209MVbljOw8N6jcRTMExFirpnrcxYkBAqqGITZW03bQy9LpnoxahlJIm2jHd806m0F3l4CXzoMnIF38QaKkQQ3Qf4RlhmZT5TMqbvmgwrTdY36Oh2i/s320/1-11050822_597090743761003_8908973908707265896_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We begin to see in the ten stages the false in our recovery relationships with ideas, with people, with things. When our mind sees that which is false, then that which is true comes into being and then there is recovery, there is happiness.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

We begin to see in the ten stages the false in our recovery relationships

We begin to see in the ten stages the false in our recovery relationships with ideas, with people, with things. When our mind sees that wh...

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Without removing the root causes of addiction/dissociation

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDqVwTlaNT-tah2VFnuNAO8FAo7mLRmg5BNLj6rO7IEcz1oQQ9MP9MzdSATS-DBwPxkiH-kIl7Joq2b-uglfy4f5y0b8QQKczQTiLhCxpb7RUyPaS21ikApNn7-DT51KBjuS9-93oYBkZz/s1600/1-11050822_597090743761003_8908973908707265896_n-001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="316" data-original-width="355" height="284" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDqVwTlaNT-tah2VFnuNAO8FAo7mLRmg5BNLj6rO7IEcz1oQQ9MP9MzdSATS-DBwPxkiH-kIl7Joq2b-uglfy4f5y0b8QQKczQTiLhCxpb7RUyPaS21ikApNn7-DT51KBjuS9-93oYBkZz/s320/1-11050822_597090743761003_8908973908707265896_n-001.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Without removing the root causes of addiction/dissociation, there cannot be any recovery; and to seek recovery when the mind is unawakened to dissociation is utterly empty, meaningless.<br /><br /><br /><br /></span><br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Without removing the root causes of addiction/dissociation

Without removing the root causes of addiction/dissociation, there cannot be any recovery; and to seek recovery when the mind is unawakened...

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Our unchosen relationships are relationships with family members who suffer from dissociation.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s1600/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s320/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Our unchosen relationships are relationships with family members who suffer from dissociation. They are called "Unchosen" since they are relationships which a person made no choice to participate in. Mothers who hurt, abuse or neglect their own children. Fathers who hurt, abuse or neglect their own children. Children who hurt themselves and others.</span><br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Our unchosen relationships are relationships with family members who suffer from dissociation.

Our unchosen relationships are relationships with family members who suffer from dissociation. They are called "Unchosen" since ...

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The vast majority of us cannot admit our parents disrespected and hurt us.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO243-YUT6nTyiM4LIsEUEQ5fUlohU_EZc9vtXm6ZC3JTE1EyL6kVUJoaiG73NkspSLYPwrsBzDQamZeaHNxOC3V_i0qfZ32qml8eWyxC3CFCFdVTLaSGoU9K82QjrLGSbDJIwuHtYIftC/s1600/16427498_10155083291472755_9055493594856541152_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="685" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO243-YUT6nTyiM4LIsEUEQ5fUlohU_EZc9vtXm6ZC3JTE1EyL6kVUJoaiG73NkspSLYPwrsBzDQamZeaHNxOC3V_i0qfZ32qml8eWyxC3CFCFdVTLaSGoU9K82QjrLGSbDJIwuHtYIftC/s320/16427498_10155083291472755_9055493594856541152_n.jpg" width="228" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #373737;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The vast majority of us cannot admit our parents disrespected and hurt us.  As a result, we avoid the painful work of pain, grief  and suffering that heals our past.  Instead, we say our parents “did the best they could.”</span></span><br /> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

The vast majority of us cannot admit our parents disrespected and hurt us.

The vast majority of us cannot admit our parents disrespected and hurt us.  As a result, we avoid the painful work of pain, grief  and suf...

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Sadly, no one had perfect parents or the perfect childhood.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgP1b9MYM4CT5ljSid3evlpGi4loVgk-YC_dQnRdJd3IqpEQUWAoZiEuLT4xpVBKaGUk1WF21mds5GbPOSnT43TooLUksik7OP3hOTGjah4jDEshUJDcPgf5m8-ycillt5IzzXgEArZpFP1/s1600/Connected89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="789" data-original-width="940" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgP1b9MYM4CT5ljSid3evlpGi4loVgk-YC_dQnRdJd3IqpEQUWAoZiEuLT4xpVBKaGUk1WF21mds5GbPOSnT43TooLUksik7OP3hOTGjah4jDEshUJDcPgf5m8-ycillt5IzzXgEArZpFP1/s320/Connected89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><i>Sadly</i>, no one had perfect parents or the perfect childhood. We are all disrespected, abused children which explains much of our present behaviour patterns, if not all, of the world’s insanity. Collectively, humans are a traumatised species, often this is hard to perceive as since this is our norm.<br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Sadly, no one had perfect parents or the perfect childhood.

Sadly , no one had perfect parents or the perfect childhood. We are all disrespected, abused children which explains much of our present ...

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Everyone has been a child and we all carry that child into our daily life.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl2uZpBtHthAh6rTXjXMprnPjktq0PaBU2clDTCnhrfBU_pQgw2vqD1gC6XuWAHBEzilCgncS9hWACYCwUNSgGYJ6h4MPph6hEY1-UQS52pPY30hqNaInrkeSIc1Q_0dCw1aOVXy6wGiTz/s1600/onelife56.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="789" data-original-width="940" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl2uZpBtHthAh6rTXjXMprnPjktq0PaBU2clDTCnhrfBU_pQgw2vqD1gC6XuWAHBEzilCgncS9hWACYCwUNSgGYJ6h4MPph6hEY1-UQS52pPY30hqNaInrkeSIc1Q_0dCw1aOVXy6wGiTz/s320/onelife56.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Everyone has been a child and we all carry that child into our daily life. This our own personal child the child hidden within craves and needs functioning parenting. If our parent model are not functional in a modern society and its newly created norms, meaning that often our parents unknowingly and sometimes knowingly carry unresolved trauma from their own childhood, this</span><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> will in turn damage their child. Any trauma or disrespect that is unresolved will permeate through. This is the child withins hidden disrespect and a form of abuse.</span><br /> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com</i>

Everyone has been a child and we all carry that child into our daily life.

Everyone has been a child and we all carry that child into our daily life. This our own personal child the child hidden within craves and ...

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Intulexia is a state of mind produced by a fully functioning relationship with our child within cauterises the process of traumatised memory

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlG0MuphmN7PEXK4mFL03oTj7BlmylIPLYx9Iufoky3hBk02uBTb6ufO97mdnc-Caq75x-EThLkLmPpRgq2TKJcaIEHVWvOwArFT93u0TwNozCQDuatIOUHax-Ba6Q6EP-lJhx3X2N8U85/s1600/intulexia10.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="500" data-original-width="500" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlG0MuphmN7PEXK4mFL03oTj7BlmylIPLYx9Iufoky3hBk02uBTb6ufO97mdnc-Caq75x-EThLkLmPpRgq2TKJcaIEHVWvOwArFT93u0TwNozCQDuatIOUHax-Ba6Q6EP-lJhx3X2N8U85/s200/intulexia10.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <br /> <div class="m_-1602158222025883846field m_-1602158222025883846field--name-field-quote-source m_-1602158222025883846field--type-text-with-summary m_-1602158222025883846field--label-hidden" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #606060; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"> </div> <br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Intulexia is a state of mind produced by a fully functioning relationship with our child within cauterises the process of traumatised memory which must come to an end. Memory becomes into being only when experience is not fully, completely understood. Memory is only the residue of an experience; it is the result of a challenge which is not fully comprehended. </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Life is a process of challenge and response. Challenge is always new but the response is forever old. This response, which is conditioning, which is the result of the past, must be understood and not disciplined or condemned away. It means living each day a new, fully and completely. This complete living is possible only when there is pure recovery, when our heart is full, not with the words nor with the things made by the mind. Only where there is kindfulness, memory ceases; then every movement is a rebirth.</span><br /> <br /> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com</i></div>

Intulexia is a state of mind produced by a fully functioning relationship with our child within cauterises the process of traumatised memory

Intulexia is a state of mind produced by a fully functioning relationship with our child within cauterises the process of traumatised ...

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Our old patterns of dysfunction and addiction were really self-medication

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s1600/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s320/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our old patterns of dysfunction and  addiction were really self-medication and the inevitable flight from reality into our self constructed escapist world of chaos and drama. We did not attempt do a “moral” inventory, that we believed will only replay our childhood traumas just by studying our morals, our own “badness” and hurtful behaviour. <br /><br />The reasons are that the mere act of revisiting childhood trauma and the frozen self is a re-traumatising belief. That we have already been pre-programmed to come to believe firmly that we had no true self. We have learned at the ten stages that we were programmed to believe that in some cases we were condemned at birth to constantly replay and escape during our life.</span><br /> <div> <br /> <br /></div> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Our old patterns of dysfunction and addiction were really self-medication

Our old patterns of dysfunction and  addiction were really self-medication and the inevitable flight from reality into our self constructe...

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In the ten stages its important to understand how are operating ,our functioning, the activity of our home grown constructed shadow self.

<br /> <div class="m_5013112949167026625field m_5013112949167026625field--name-field-quote-source m_5013112949167026625field--type-text-with-summary m_5013112949167026625field--label-hidden" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #606060; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"> </div> <br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /> </span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s1600/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s320/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" width="320" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> In the ten stages its important to understand how we are operating ,our functioning, the activity of our home grown constructed shadow self. When our child within operates, our shadow self cannot possibly understand the child within. It is only when the shadow self, which is our conditioned self, our ancestral voice, which has been cultivated through centuries of time, which is everlastingly seeking its own security, its own comfort—it is only when that shadow self is quiet that we will see that there is a different kind of movement in our life, and it is this movement which is going to bring clarity. It is this movement which is clarity itself. </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">To understand, we must fully understand the shadow self, be aware of it, know all its movements, its activities, its demands, its pursuits, and that is why meditation is very important. We do not mean the absurd, systematised cultivation of a certain habit of thought,  that’s all too immature and structured. By meditation we mean to understand the operations of shadow self, to watch it, to know how it reacts, what its responses are, its tendencies, its demands, its aggressive pursuits—to know the whole of that, the unconscious as well as the conscious part of it. When we know it, when there is an awareness of it, without controlling it, without directing it, without saying, “This is good; this is bad; we’ll keep this; we won’t keep that,”—when we see the total movement of our shadow self, when we see it totally, then it becomes quiet...then we learn to let go and finally gain our freedom.</span></div> <div> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com</div>

In the ten stages its important to understand how are operating ,our functioning, the activity of our home grown constructed shadow self.

  In the ten stages its important to understand how we are operating ,our functioning, the activity of our home grown constructed sh...

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Only our dulled, soporific minds creates and clings to addiction.

<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s1600/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjazHp_9DfV2IY_i_hcw6OPxzLj2uZMdQTuBTFq6Iv8xG-hhtC41V3TtktaH8R6tto1hbotHWwKjAmlaaAJ3lXbItDpqXAb7oREQscNTlvZY2oCQwx_pvxLu6QmYdSXuHPJTOR8ZbRUuVFc/s320/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> Only our dulled, soporific minds creates and clings to addiction. A mind that is attentive from moment to moment—attentive to what it is saying, attentive to the movement of its hands, of its thoughts, of its feelings—will discover that the formation of further addictions has come to an end. This is very important to understand, because as long as our mind is breaking down one addiction, in that very process its creating another, it can obviously never be free; and it is only the free mind that can perceive something beyond itself.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Only our dulled, soporific minds creates and clings to addiction.

  Only our dulled, soporific minds creates and clings to addiction. A mind that is attentive from moment to moment—attentive to what it is...

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We have to become observers at the ten stages in how dissociations are formed

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpPNAotexFp-XjzEFgI4gvbMFi2Rz4oXIz-Wzh4JJo7F2DUcRemwqNmtvotgNyjDXYRYYyPa42cpSswc4B4SuRrKt_YkPL8hd0ehWeijuIM77kayXFDPUbEatAS6XorAQAmi_PReMiHfnQ/s1600/dissociation657seeds.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpPNAotexFp-XjzEFgI4gvbMFi2Rz4oXIz-Wzh4JJo7F2DUcRemwqNmtvotgNyjDXYRYYyPa42cpSswc4B4SuRrKt_YkPL8hd0ehWeijuIM77kayXFDPUbEatAS6XorAQAmi_PReMiHfnQ/s320/dissociation657seeds.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We have to become observers at the ten stages in how dissociations are formed and how, by denying or resisting one dissociation, another is almost instantly created. What matters is to be totally conscious of our dissociations; for then, as we will see for ourselves there is no longer the formation of dissociation. To resist, to fight it, to deny it, only gives continuity to another form. When we fight a particular dissociation we give life to that form of addiction, and then the very fighting of it becomes a further addiction. But if we become simply aware of the whole structure of dissociations without resistance, then we will find there is freedom from our addictions, and in that freedom a new life takes place.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

We have to become observers at the ten stages in how dissociations are formed

We have to become observers at the ten stages in how dissociations are formed and how, by denying or resisting one dissociation, another i...

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Dissociation has nothing to do with age

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjL3fr4OCP_GG2lm674H4pYklgJ_Jb4JoBQVd8AYPOaDLYSl_3e42xsMi3l5Rdm5kvCedAeiii6WpOyRS2zYXdCvKxPEijjBGVaSBL4pqADdocY97i9_l8YdWP9pPIv0hTCSh2sCGbbvIop/s1600/FAV2469a73b5a355bd67cb0b6ffd71efc7e.ico.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="192" data-original-width="192" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjL3fr4OCP_GG2lm674H4pYklgJ_Jb4JoBQVd8AYPOaDLYSl_3e42xsMi3l5Rdm5kvCedAeiii6WpOyRS2zYXdCvKxPEijjBGVaSBL4pqADdocY97i9_l8YdWP9pPIv0hTCSh2sCGbbvIop/s1600/FAV2469a73b5a355bd67cb0b6ffd71efc7e.ico.png" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Dissociation has nothing to do with age or gender, it has nothing to do with experience; and it seems to me that the very essence of dissociation lies in understanding the whole mechanism of addiction, both conscious and unconscious. It is not a question of ending addiction, but of seeing totally the structure of dissociation.<br /></span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Dissociation has nothing to do with age

Dissociation has nothing to do with age or gender, it has nothing to do with experience; and it seems to me that the very essence of disso...

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Without freedom from our past

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik6Uh-iiQlYtmDMFWN8GD3ahRA7J-i72jlXEyrb5iDNsCS_ZBgcftyGatLIDlLHq3kMZnC8kxmG9EV5m-RxDn9lWOhDuUQOLg4L6AcmQu9VoB15gcGpCtkyXajZtoPRUQR4pkC5GH9U62X/s1600/18057639_924286604379707_8866164788376405157_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="960" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik6Uh-iiQlYtmDMFWN8GD3ahRA7J-i72jlXEyrb5iDNsCS_ZBgcftyGatLIDlLHq3kMZnC8kxmG9EV5m-RxDn9lWOhDuUQOLg4L6AcmQu9VoB15gcGpCtkyXajZtoPRUQR4pkC5GH9U62X/s320/18057639_924286604379707_8866164788376405157_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Without freedom from our past there is no freedom for us at all</span></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Without freedom from our past

Without freedom from our past there is no freedom for us at all The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of recon...

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It is only mind freed from addiction in the ten stages

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKD8WcG8f339PQMWrI9YjdvIXZD9-IWVhR-HcQtTW0wr2HmDntwGcVziqJBcVhgV5iwuOrHPFOU0Gm7AWEZgVUy1I3ualMPcPEi5Yvzdn1WuyOe7mLKDwvMzPLrtcEM4MQttExN9N5xVif/s1600/within+child.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="192" data-original-width="192" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKD8WcG8f339PQMWrI9YjdvIXZD9-IWVhR-HcQtTW0wr2HmDntwGcVziqJBcVhgV5iwuOrHPFOU0Gm7AWEZgVUy1I3ualMPcPEi5Yvzdn1WuyOe7mLKDwvMzPLrtcEM4MQttExN9N5xVif/s1600/within+child.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />It is only mind freed from all addictions in the ten stages that can perceive something beyond itself.</span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

It is only mind freed from addiction in the ten stages

It is only mind freed from all addictions in the ten stages that can perceive something beyond itself. The Ten Stages is a studied recover...

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Ten Stages Peace & Meditation

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbMjSrgw8g0i6gNCmrY63RABsSnUvTDbJ040fvehjFkwlJWaZAmp-6CCrfJYQSh2pL9_l0BxrltLqOSD2-s8J_J7Pg9hHkO51GXaXY9vvueFB9mj3tLsEySaTw2xrI4ZcFt9GDCHm37fg4/s1600/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbMjSrgw8g0i6gNCmrY63RABsSnUvTDbJ040fvehjFkwlJWaZAmp-6CCrfJYQSh2pL9_l0BxrltLqOSD2-s8J_J7Pg9hHkO51GXaXY9vvueFB9mj3tLsEySaTw2xrI4ZcFt9GDCHm37fg4/s320/ten+stages+dayhab.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">"Ten Stages Peace & Meditation": " Grant us access to our intuitive voice to accept all guidance revealed through our meditations on our child within us, the courage to let go of the things we are asked to, and the wisdom to interpret our intuition according to our child withins will for us"</span><br /> <br /> Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Ten Stages Peace & Meditation

"Ten Stages Peace & Meditation": " Grant us access to our intuitive voice to accept all guidance revealed through our m...

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