The Ten Stage message is based on loving-kindness and compassion for our individual truth and it has worked in this trying year in which I have experienced strokes, kidney failure seven heart attacks, two close encounters with death and the fitting of a heart pacemaker. I secretly doubted this program yet I amazed the hospital staff by using no pain medications and making speedy recovery regaining the use of my hands, speech and sight my faith has deepened and I know this works beyond our wildest dreams for everyone.Is it difficult no it is not.

When we hear the truthful strong messages in the ten stages we become shocked, defensive our childhood experiences weren't that bad we say because we have been used to being deceived and told how grown up, adult and smart and wise and enlightened and healthy we already are?


We are actively encouraged being told it was just fine for us to have our children. We have become used to being told that our abuse of our children is not really abuse and that our conditional love for our children really was love.


We have become used to being told that our own lies and insanity are actually perfectly healthy and normal. We are used to listening to false gurus and old prophets when we have problems. We are used to being told that our mindless behaviour was wise, and that we are doing the right thing by building a wall between our consciousness and the wrenching pain of our true, deep spirit of our child hidden within.


Lies we have got used to being told that our culture is healthy, our treatment of the earth’s resources was progressive, our romantic relationships are beautiful, our love for our parents was appropriate and warranted, our histories of abuse are overrated, our gurus are indeed gurus, our wars are largely justified, our petty prejudices are acceptable as long as we did not push them in others’ faces, and that our hatreds were rational.


We are used to being placated and numbed and medicated and enslaved and psychically castrated by those who are profiting from our herd mentality. And we have always thought this was what love was.


We have become very uncomfortable that the ten stages would dare to contradict everything we hold dear. Challenge our so-called recovery vision, yet the ten Stages message resonated with us on some deep and long-forgotten level. We are not used to hearing the truth. It makes us curious. And it also makes some of us violently reject this message.I was one such person but this is a course of study and experiential loving action with all others.It is based on loving-kindness and compassion for our individual truth and it has worked in this trying year in which I have experienced strokes, kidney failure seven heart attacks, two close encounters with death and the fitting of a heart pacemaker. I secretly doubted this program yet I amazed the hospital staff by using no pain medications and making speedy recovery regaining the use of my hands, speech and sight my faith has deepened and I know this works beyond our wildest dreams for everyone.Is it difficult no it is not.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com