Abuse and disrespect during our childhood creates within us a lost, fearful and frozen child. If we are unable to reach this child within...
Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states control o...
Emotional growth and mental health -- you cannot change the past, but you can change its impact. Children are impressionable -- they pay d...
Starting Stage One. When outer influences intrude in our current life or from our family of origin, through derogatory attitudes, preju...
We can think of our Shadow Self as a demented mediator that seeks to depolarise the conflicts of our consciousness helping to sort out all...
We at the ten stages are intent on building healthy self worth our goal is autonomy.Fellowships, religions, cults, gurus sponsors and ment...
The deepest wound. My wound, your wound, Was the first, the most cutting, The damage done, Before we even knew who we were. Just starting ...
We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound....
At the core of all addictions is abuse. By abuse what we mean is emotional loss in childhood, and in the case of severe addicts, you can s...
Joining The 10 Stages starts the emotional healing process, if it goes well, it risks much. Basically at risk is our false const...
As we journey forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation. Some parts ...
Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life. Although we can and do intercede with others , we often do ...
The most painful deep seated education within the ten stages is to deal with our dissociations.This will cause us considerable amoun...
We have spent so much time focused on what we can’t control that we get so caught up only in that, and as a result, we feel totally powerl...
