The child withins mortality rate the whole world over is profoundly high. Yet we who take the statistics and rule the governments and make the children and devote their careers to “educating” them are by and large dead ourselves, and part of our deadness involves ignoring this. We lack connection to our own healthy nutrients and instead get them from feeding, like vultures, on the energy of the vulnerable ones who are still alive. And because this is so normal no one bats an eye. It is indefensible, yet families and society are structured to defend it. And the easiest way to defend it is to say that it’s not even happening.
It is a painful thing to wake up — and to fight for your child Within. It breaks all rules. It angers the public norm. It enrages parents. It puts targets on our back. And it hurts. It hurts like hell. It hurts to rip down the prison wall and feel the old abuse and traumas, the old longings, the old memories. It hurts to grieve, to feel the rage, to confront the perpetrators, to break the denial. It hurts to shed the mask of comfort and walk into the despair. It hurts to reject the fantasy of one day being loved by those who never really loved you and instead drank your childhood blood. It hurts to leave the family system behind. It hurts to stand on your own.
Yet this process of waking up, and this alone, is the pathway back to life to a long, healthy child withins life. This is the cure for child within mortality.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com
I find this information so very descriptive. It hurt to read it, and validated me...thank you.
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