In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcSXbb6FzHXZ1jLZd3k7xW0wvZ1fnom9O9BX1jl3mbBeslAQT8U4JKtPBs1FsPMUNT-Xhsg3u3lInQt0pN9uCZ9FO7yPjM-V_7ux8_4bNTF2lO6PIl3pJdke7sDp2s1ScGe7AfGRD9lk18/s1600/gdchild+within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcSXbb6FzHXZ1jLZd3k7xW0wvZ1fnom9O9BX1jl3mbBeslAQT8U4JKtPBs1FsPMUNT-Xhsg3u3lInQt0pN9uCZ9FO7yPjM-V_7ux8_4bNTF2lO6PIl3pJdke7sDp2s1ScGe7AfGRD9lk18/s320/gdchild+within.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma. To protect and defend ourselves against future suffering, we often try to forget those painful times. Every time we’re in touch with the experience of suffering, we believe we can’t bear it, and we stuff our feelings and memories deep down in our unconscious mind.WE dissociate from them. It may be that we haven’t dared to face this child for many decades.<br /><br /><br />But just because we may have ignored the child within doesn’t mean she or he isn’t there. The child within is always there, trying to get our attention. The child says, “I’m here. I’m here. You can’t avoid me. You can’t run away from me.” We want to end our suffering by sending the child to a deep place inside, and staying as far away as possible. But running away doesn’t end our suffering; it only prolongs it.<br /><br /><br />The child within us asks for care and love, but we do the opposite. We run away because we’re afraid of suffering. The block of pain and sorrow in us feels overwhelming. Even if we have time, we don’t come home to ourselves. We try to keep ourselves constantly entertained—watching television or movies, socialising, or using alcohol or drugs—because we don’t want to experience that suffering all over again.We are dissociated.<br /><br /><br />The child is there and we don’t even know the child within is there. The child in us is a reality, but we can’t see it. That inability to see is a kind of ignorance. This child has been severely abused</span><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">. She or he really needs us to return. Instead we turn away.</span><div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Ignorance is in each cell of our body and our consciousness. It’s like a drop of ink diffused in a glass of water. That ignorance stops us from seeing reality; it pushes us to do foolish things that make us suffer even more and we dissociate</span><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> again pushing down the child in us.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />The </span><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">child within is also in each cell of our body. There is no cell of our body that does not have that child in it. We don’t have to look far into the past for that child. We only have to look deeply and we can be in touch with him/her. The suffering of that abused child is lying inside us right now in the present moment.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />But just as the suffering is present in every cell of our body, so are the seeds of awakened understanding and happiness handed down to us from our ancestors. We just have to use them. We have a lamp inside us, the lamp of intuition, which we can light anytime. The oil of that lamp is our breathing, our steps, and our peaceful smile. We have to light up that lamp of our forgotten intuition so the light will shine out and the darkness will dissipate and cease. Our practice is to light up the lamp.<br /><br /><br />When we become aware that we’ve forgotten the </span><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">child in ourselves, we feel great compassion for that child and we begin to generate the energy of our child within. The practices of compassion, loving-kindness, and meditational breathing are our foundation. With our breath and the stages, we can produce the energy of our intuition and return to the awakened wisdom lying in each cell of our body. That energy will embrace us and heal us, and will heal the child within us.</span></div> <div> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma.

In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma. ...

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Ten Stage Recovery promotes positive bonded life experiences

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_27JN0ZFG6ZgtIgSyNsiepfwdjKmV_Q9D6XLPvDz9MXTbeKHng8-y83h4X6J4VFnIf4L7pd6dJ2lQr2_rMIbfSXmPyC4coWXL6C7Z24gkidz-nBIIzMkuCb-9Tx_ncgxEYrazVFeAIFfg/s1600/brorecoveery.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="300" data-original-width="1200" height="80" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_27JN0ZFG6ZgtIgSyNsiepfwdjKmV_Q9D6XLPvDz9MXTbeKHng8-y83h4X6J4VFnIf4L7pd6dJ2lQr2_rMIbfSXmPyC4coWXL6C7Z24gkidz-nBIIzMkuCb-9Tx_ncgxEYrazVFeAIFfg/s320/brorecoveery.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br />To listen deeply, to learn to share without trauma meaningfully and positively,  building a fully bonded safe community. That’s our mission.<br /><br />It’s never been our goal to have the most followers, and I don’t see why it ever will be. A massive audience holds no power if it has no passion. So instead we focus our energy on the audience we do have, establishing trust and creating meaningful interactions. We are ten stagers aligned with our child within, cultivating advocacy with a strategy driven by the growth of relationships within our ten stage community.<br /><br /> Ten Stage Course promotes positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical to helping the mind to readjust itself.The Ten Stages, identifying with the child within opens a new scenario If our child within is removed from the traumatic environment and provided with a compassionate and nurturing environment, then healing will start to occur and the effects of childhood trauma will be minimised and start to reverse.Truth Trust and Consent must be paramount. <br /></span> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Ten Stage Recovery promotes positive bonded life experiences

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Being a dissociated alcoholic is no longer a moral issue, a character flaw, a spiritual illness, a defect in spirit or a personality disorder.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrxE7gMYTM2R_9cZT2l5IgBA2Ga2o9xnYVoN7tY3d1pRM7eDT0TH1zG0pK2dz31TuUaZfbRRHOr8rAijUFyU8qa3yFYSNpvfAiRxf-Lf7HA57LyReqKouW7TiOJn8ymI4CBu-lYCADj00/s1600/DAS.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrxE7gMYTM2R_9cZT2l5IgBA2Ga2o9xnYVoN7tY3d1pRM7eDT0TH1zG0pK2dz31TuUaZfbRRHOr8rAijUFyU8qa3yFYSNpvfAiRxf-Lf7HA57LyReqKouW7TiOJn8ymI4CBu-lYCADj00/s320/DAS.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Instilling a sense of powerlessness in us is destructive to the child within, teaches and perpetuates learned helplessness, perpetuates hopelessness, prevents one from taking personal responsibility and encourages a self-fulfilling prophecy from our parents of not being good enough. that in the case of addiction often leads to binge drinking and justification for the binge. "If I'm powerless, I guess there's nothing I can do about it, so I might as well drink myself to death," is what the mind concludes. The powerlessness concept actually increases binging behaviour and relapse.<br /><br /><br />It is completely disempowering, which is insane, because what we need more than anything is to feel empowered. We need to feel capable of changing our life. Not only that, it's a complete lie. We understand that the true root of alcoholism lies in dissociation and the biochemistry and there are ways to correct it, they are given all the tools needed to overcome their addiction and the shame so often associated with being an alcoholic. Being a dissociated alcoholic is no longer a moral issue, a character flaw, a spiritual illness, a defect in spirit or a personality disorder. It frees them forever and we awaken to our own recovery.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Being a dissociated alcoholic is no longer a moral issue, a character flaw, a spiritual illness, a defect in spirit or a personality disorder.

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Life activities can have a childlike undertone because our unintegrated negative emotionality

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjh-KE_pXH3OliJ4EcKtpdot_xttceKkaLR2XXXgh1LalkGGuLXcUKktTDkTRn9pg0EtkvrqWSNbG9AR69kzFVbWZN8PJiFMTrrehbVk1LyjGluk9midxRX50jNwrsve5W_AFe9WcCqIaX9/s1600/preview+child+within.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjh-KE_pXH3OliJ4EcKtpdot_xttceKkaLR2XXXgh1LalkGGuLXcUKktTDkTRn9pg0EtkvrqWSNbG9AR69kzFVbWZN8PJiFMTrrehbVk1LyjGluk9midxRX50jNwrsve5W_AFe9WcCqIaX9/s320/preview+child+within.png" width="238" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Life activities can have a childlike undertone because our unintegrated negative emotionality the ghost appearance of our child within can so easily "take over" our functional state, especially when we feel fear. Many of us live in our child withins state of trauma much of the time.</span><div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">As people grow up, they take on various identifications and copy what they conceive of as adult behaviours and styles; however, it is not the adult who is doing this but the child. Therefore, what we see in daily life are people acting out the programs and scenarios that they identify with as a child.<br /><br />The young child already exhibits curiosity, self-pity, jealousy, envy, competitiveness, temper tantrums, emotional outbursts, resentments, hatreds, rivalry, seeking limelight and admiration, petulance, blaming others, disclaiming responsibility, making others wrong, looking for favor, collecting 'things', showing off and more. These are all attributes of a child.<br /><br /><br /><br /></span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

Life activities can have a childlike undertone because our unintegrated negative emotionality

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You see – our child within doesn't need any personal growth work.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLwU_uU23NMz1Lc-ww8nbUSNDjtpFcranxkDBFeJTiXne90h43UFE4hfibdhNEO__9AssQX3SsXfjWGCJOzmdpRoKF8FKjTQ4X1djMjkBsH3yH51XPXWfoGSMMD_qpUztoNndpCcgui0Nu/s1600/1-crack+mirror.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLwU_uU23NMz1Lc-ww8nbUSNDjtpFcranxkDBFeJTiXne90h43UFE4hfibdhNEO__9AssQX3SsXfjWGCJOzmdpRoKF8FKjTQ4X1djMjkBsH3yH51XPXWfoGSMMD_qpUztoNndpCcgui0Nu/s1600/1-crack+mirror.jpg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We need to take Recovery bypass surgery when our fear blocks us from feeling our feelings and recognising our child trapped within.<br /><br />You see – our child within doesn't need any personal growth work.<br />our child within doesn't need therapy. our child within doesn't need yoga, green juice or an alkaline, gluten free diet – our body does.<br /><br />Fear is not the opposite of Love.<br />Fear is a biological response to uncertainty that comes from the amygdala that causes our body to be filled with cortisol (stress hormone) and adrenaline.<br /><br />We can spend so much time trying to hang out in the “spiritual realm” that we don’t allow ourselves to feel the fullness of our human emotion.<br /><br />We tend to carry so much shame with us when it comes to feeling our feelings because we believe that feeling our fear or negativity are “unspiritual.”<br /><br />The only thing unspiritual is the judgment of our feelings, which is actually keeping us blocked from happiness.<br /><br />de-pression comes from re-pression.<br />If we don’t allow ourselves to feel and be honest about what’s inside the child within without judgment – we can never really change.<br /><br />We can change our clothes, we can change our diet and we can start to move our body, but none of that will do any good without going into the depths of the feelings we have suppressed for so long in our child within.<br /><br /><br /><br />What feelings are you afraid to feel?<br /><br />What feelings do you try to escape?<br /><br />What feelings are you holding back because you think you are a bad person if you feel them?<br /><br />You see – these places are the places we need to go if we are to liberate ourselves.<br /><br /><br />This is what Carl Jung meant when he said, “Enlightenment is not imaging figures of light, but making the dark conscious.”<br /><br />We can’t make our child within conscious if we are too self-judgmental to allow it to come forward – this is a recovery bypass and it’s as deadly as a blocked artery.<br /><br />What feelings can you feel today?</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

You see – our child within doesn't need any personal growth work.

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loving-kindfulness, a sense of brotherhood or sisterhood, a sense of altruism and self-worth — these are key solution areas in the ten stages.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUgcPvN41fhTAxoyL_U-4jzEuu01nOkig87qiGNRpl_Qmrct8UyuolWZOCMXVT3cx9uDdBM22ugPy7NCRmhchgxePP7IBR_Y5Too7KqucgNApJFT0UbLk_m_aveac6qCiiwkZv1GhjheW7/s1600/304576_167883410002376_707153215_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUgcPvN41fhTAxoyL_U-4jzEuu01nOkig87qiGNRpl_Qmrct8UyuolWZOCMXVT3cx9uDdBM22ugPy7NCRmhchgxePP7IBR_Y5Too7KqucgNApJFT0UbLk_m_aveac6qCiiwkZv1GhjheW7/s320/304576_167883410002376_707153215_n.jpg" width="236" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">loving-kindfulness, a sense of brotherhood or sisterhood, a sense of altruism and self-worth — these are key solution areas  in the ten stages. Compassion, love — these positive thoughts give us hope, courage, determination, inner strength, a solution to the insolvable. Whether we are successful in the future, or not, depends entirely on the determination of the present generation of stagers. If we do not act with will or intelligence, then our future cannot be guaranteed for the next generation or for the generation after that. We cannot blame politicians, or people who make problems, but we can blame ourselves. We must ourselves take some kind of initiative. Without shouting that there is not enough, we should develop something within ourselves, and then, as an example to others, try to make some contribution to humanity. Altruism is no religious business; it is the business of humanity.<br /><br />So now, the next question is: Is there any possibility of developing more compassion, more altruism? And is there any possibility of reducing anger, hatred, and jealousy? The answer is: Yes! Whether we believe it or not, let us try to implement this, let us carry out some experiments, then we’ll find the answer. Within </span><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">our own experience, through training the mind, and coming to terms with the past the answers has become quite clear.</span><div> <div> <br /></div> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

loving-kindfulness, a sense of brotherhood or sisterhood, a sense of altruism and self-worth — these are key solution areas in the ten stages.

loving-kindfulness, a sense of brotherhood or sisterhood, a sense of altruism and self-worth — these are key solution areas  in the ten st...

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First stages into the Ten Stages

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLwU_uU23NMz1Lc-ww8nbUSNDjtpFcranxkDBFeJTiXne90h43UFE4hfibdhNEO__9AssQX3SsXfjWGCJOzmdpRoKF8FKjTQ4X1djMjkBsH3yH51XPXWfoGSMMD_qpUztoNndpCcgui0Nu/s1600/1-crack+mirror.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLwU_uU23NMz1Lc-ww8nbUSNDjtpFcranxkDBFeJTiXne90h43UFE4hfibdhNEO__9AssQX3SsXfjWGCJOzmdpRoKF8FKjTQ4X1djMjkBsH3yH51XPXWfoGSMMD_qpUztoNndpCcgui0Nu/s1600/1-crack+mirror.jpg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We cannot change our past, arrange the future to suit ourself, or make other people say and do the things we want them to say and do. All of our power is contained within this moment, related to this particular body and mind. And this is a very powerful position to be in this </span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">has certainly endowed our child within with the magic of a new rich environment truth, trust and consent </span><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">the ten stages in which to learn our first complete emotional language of freedom. Gaining this magic of an ability to acquire that language from the surroundings of quiet ten stage meditation. Now the question: Is this magic limited to child within, or does some of it remain long after childhood has ended, waiting to be used again, this is time to help understand our dtysfunctioning life?</span><div> <div> <div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div> </div> </div>

First stages into the Ten Stages

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INTULEXIA has certainly endowed our child within a magical new rich environment of truth, trust and consent

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLaJe3tAiPP0fF-GlWTNCo354tcusH6G2txvdAqAU8WxBDgRZioSBwGHaEHoL73zAK-7wBPqEJUH6m2HuLUQxQqs0_7GcS7ydu9tGbnM5rDPriYyv82HwExIkwncYE_0IiMWxijFXMcfmB/s1600/1-trauma123.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLaJe3tAiPP0fF-GlWTNCo354tcusH6G2txvdAqAU8WxBDgRZioSBwGHaEHoL73zAK-7wBPqEJUH6m2HuLUQxQqs0_7GcS7ydu9tGbnM5rDPriYyv82HwExIkwncYE_0IiMWxijFXMcfmB/s320/1-trauma123.jpg" width="272" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">INTULEXIA has certainly endowed our child within a magical new rich environment of truth, trust and consent inside the ten stages. Within which we learn our first original truthful language and the magic of a wonderful ability to acquire that language from the surroundings of quiet meditation. Now the question: Is this magic limited to a child, or does some of it remain long after childhood has ended, waiting to be used again, this time to help tame a dtysfunctioning life? The re-awakening of childhood communication we call INTULEXIA.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

INTULEXIA has certainly endowed our child within a magical new rich environment of truth, trust and consent

INTULEXIA has certainly endowed our child within a magical new rich environment of truth, trust and consent inside the ten stages. Within ...

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The pace of cognitive decline is the same in the 40’s as in the 80’s.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXgW0WZ9EuFEF0o2XpSrtXfRygqXFGhxFlof1dw8FN2hNh30sn_-k5EOIyMhWjB8SCqPOYFpwQiuZKUUIt_0wqL48Qppmq3TDaAa-N9oqUS__NKqpRfLmd-f9m46iqWcHborWc-GzASTG8/s1600/pos4.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXgW0WZ9EuFEF0o2XpSrtXfRygqXFGhxFlof1dw8FN2hNh30sn_-k5EOIyMhWjB8SCqPOYFpwQiuZKUUIt_0wqL48Qppmq3TDaAa-N9oqUS__NKqpRfLmd-f9m46iqWcHborWc-GzASTG8/s1600/pos4.png" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The pace of cognitive decline is the same in the 40’s as in the 80’s. We just notice more accumulated decline as we get older, especially when we cross the threshold of forgetting most of what we try to remember.<br /> <br />But we can affect this progression. Prof. Merzenich at UCSF has found that neural plasticity does not disappear in adults. It just requires mental exercise. Use it or lose it. We have to get out of the mental ruts that career tracks and academic “disciplines” can foster. Blogging is a form of mental exercise. I try to let this one take a random walk of curiosities and child-like exploration.<br /> <br />Bottom line: Embrace lifelong learning. Do something new. Physical exercise is repetitive; mental exercise is eclectic.</span></blockquote> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The pace of cognitive decline is the same in the 40’s as in the 80’s.

The pace of cognitive decline is the same in the 40’s as in the 80’s. We just notice more accumulated decline as we get older, especial...

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Babies are just plain smarter than we are

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjo6eVG0VHMaF4aXgcMoUDgLCx4sL5w6dHQF4cX-gzu1TK9VhGFXelUxIln8GDJYc-tGO7Y50Vz_BVNK9phZPuiXRDaMzVw91Dd6DJUOLQT4Ke85ygpfQdbP5Bl0lxNAvrcK_W2pTzmuPs/s1600/child+within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="295" data-original-width="784" height="120" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjo6eVG0VHMaF4aXgcMoUDgLCx4sL5w6dHQF4cX-gzu1TK9VhGFXelUxIln8GDJYc-tGO7Y50Vz_BVNK9phZPuiXRDaMzVw91Dd6DJUOLQT4Ke85ygpfQdbP5Bl0lxNAvrcK_W2pTzmuPs/s320/child+within.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">"Babies are just plain smarter than we are, at least if being smart means being able to learn something new.... They think, draw conclusions, make predictions, look for explanations and even do experiments…. In fact, scientists are successful precisely because they emulate what children do naturally."<br /> </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Much of the human brain’s power derives from its massive synaptic interconnectivity. I spoke with Geoffrey West from the Santa Fe Institute last night. He observed that across species, synapses/neuron fan-out grows as a power law with brain mass.<br /> </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">At the age of 2 to 3 years old, children hit their peak with 10x the synapses and 2x the energy burn of an adult brain. And it’s all downhill from there.<br /> </span></blockquote> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Babies are just plain smarter than we are

"Babies are just plain smarter than we are, at least if being smart means being able to learn something new.... They think, draw c...

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all our science, measured against reality, is primitive and childlike – Albert Einstein

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIs7ixcEur8BXIvDtLS6Fh9RZT2zsDiHtQxu4otLEwwp2oWMlp6eI8v3SzlHvp6I08x58YbX3j1V5BPTBgkuzPYl-gN9X5kb1geltgl753MTj-XtLlDnS3-u6tiFTICEutnpKPJz75LKz2/s1600/output_Qp9Asf.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="183" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIs7ixcEur8BXIvDtLS6Fh9RZT2zsDiHtQxu4otLEwwp2oWMlp6eI8v3SzlHvp6I08x58YbX3j1V5BPTBgkuzPYl-gN9X5kb1geltgl753MTj-XtLlDnS3-u6tiFTICEutnpKPJz75LKz2/s320/output_Qp9Asf.gif" width="320" /></a></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">“One thing I have learned in a long life: that all our science, measured against reality, is primitive and childlike – and yet it is the most precious thing we have.”<br /> </span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">– Albert Einstein</span></blockquote> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

all our science, measured against reality, is primitive and childlike – Albert Einstein

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Einstein had the genius to view space and time like a child

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM-0Wg7faDyMl8HasjBe-gSsz9AU-Dq4rR89Ojg7k8jB7uOPZCefN_Ipt-iHCgfPi-M8m77XriLmW9qpLoLp8TZeJZZHzWn8YBiKd5F7_T_0wJYM-wL4IiYaSEGPLXlS-Svva3uNf6-8Fo/s1600/Einstien23Collage.jpg.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="106" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM-0Wg7faDyMl8HasjBe-gSsz9AU-Dq4rR89Ojg7k8jB7uOPZCefN_Ipt-iHCgfPi-M8m77XriLmW9qpLoLp8TZeJZZHzWn8YBiKd5F7_T_0wJYM-wL4IiYaSEGPLXlS-Svva3uNf6-8Fo/s320/Einstien23Collage.jpg.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">“Einstein had the genius to view space and time like a child,” as with his thought experiments of riding a light-beam. "His breakthrough realisation of the relativity of time turned on a series of mental cartoons featuring trains and clocks. General relativity, his theory of gravity, started off as a meditation on what happens when a man falls off a roof."</span></blockquote> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Einstein had the genius to view space and time like a child

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The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with child within.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRWTGSeVDRXdXbP0R73aVBwAM1w9QbIlVOmdcw1Y9m3n5GPKiLLfZFMtF8qRMI5T3SemD5zv7Yucjn5zDYS4hwvb6YzTNF3IoFtwl3Zh-7tQU6hPK2SSQ1tBrPPy3AA1QgcgH4MUcmvljE/s1600/1-FotorChildwithin56.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="297" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRWTGSeVDRXdXbP0R73aVBwAM1w9QbIlVOmdcw1Y9m3n5GPKiLLfZFMtF8qRMI5T3SemD5zv7Yucjn5zDYS4hwvb6YzTNF3IoFtwl3Zh-7tQU6hPK2SSQ1tBrPPy3AA1QgcgH4MUcmvljE/s320/1-FotorChildwithin56.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcSXbb6FzHXZ1jLZd3k7xW0wvZ1fnom9O9BX1jl3mbBeslAQT8U4JKtPBs1FsPMUNT-Xhsg3u3lInQt0pN9uCZ9FO7yPjM-V_7ux8_4bNTF2lO6PIl3pJdke7sDp2s1ScGe7AfGRD9lk18/s1600/gdchild+within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcSXbb6FzHXZ1jLZd3k7xW0wvZ1fnom9O9BX1jl3mbBeslAQT8U4JKtPBs1FsPMUNT-Xhsg3u3lInQt0pN9uCZ9FO7yPjM-V_7ux8_4bNTF2lO6PIl3pJdke7sDp2s1ScGe7AfGRD9lk18/s320/gdchild+within.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <br /> <br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with child within. If you want to draw and attract healthy, good solid relationships into your life, then you must first create a healthy, good, solid relationship with your child with.<br /><br /> I'm not talking about the false shadow self which seeks validation through external means such as looks, money, unsatisfying relationships, social climbing, fame or material gains. I'm talking about your child within which endures beneath all the fake stuff. I'm talking about your child within, which holds the key to life and freedom; the doorway out of the illusion of happiness (unreachable fantasy)... to the reality of true peace and well being. <br /><br />Taking time to be alone.<br />If you respect your child within and want the best for yourself, then you must take time with yourself. Spending quality time with yourself, and allowing you to just "be" who you are--whatever that may be... even if it's painful, depressing, sad or happy or glad. Taking time to be there for you with no one else around is crucial. Not being able to be alone with yourself is a sign that you haven't discovered how recovered you are, and can skew your ability to be there for others, keeping you from equal, healthy relationships.<br /><br />The reverse is true, if you tend to isolate, then it's important for you to start taking risks and allow your true self to be seen around safe people. Ten Stage Meetings are a great way to start doing this if you have any nearby. <br /><br />2. Protect yourself from the adult parental voices Critic's shaming statements. <br /><br />The adult shaming parental voice is formed from the messages you received from not getting your dependency needs met as a child. A child has no boundaries and receives all unmet dependency needs as messages-- whether intended or not from caretakers--as messages of his or her worthlessness. These messages form the adult parental voice that stays with the person until it is dismounted and recovered in adulthood through ten study work. In order to have a good relationship with yourself, you have to do child within work which will protect you from your internalised adult parental voice from harming your child within.<br /><br />3. Returning to your child within.<br /><br />You have to gently reconnect to our child within. If you have trouble being there for your child within and getting into negative, painful relationships, or avoiding closeness altogether, then it is evident that you are dissociating from your child within (as you were programmed to dissociate ). We learn to hide, criticise, abuse our child within for the rest of our lives. Our child within goes into hiding as a way to survive, but it never goes away. As an adult, if you want to heal your relationship with yourself, and thereby heal your relationship to others, to your child within and to life, then you must meet your sweet, innocent, prefect child within face to face. This can be done through the ten stages, meditation, careful gentle visualisation, journaling, Intulexia.<br /><br />4. Get in touch with your child within.<br /><br />Getting in touch with your real child within involves going deeper than you are right now to figure out what you're really feeling inside. When I first started understanding this concept, I was shocked to discover that I had no idea how I really felt. I may have been angry with someone, but felt depressed and paralysed to take action. I may have felt sad, but focused on being a workaholic instead. I may have been afraid, but drank alcohol to soothe my fears. For many years I turned to the fellowships to hide from how I really felt. Getting in touch with our real feelings involves naming how we're really feeling so you can reconcile ourself with ourselves. Remember, there are 6 basic feelings, Anger, disgust, fear, joy, sadness, surprise. Try staying congruent with ourselves living in our reality and getting to our core children within</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">. </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />5. Listen to ourself to determine our needs.<br /><br />This was a hard one for me. Learning to listen to ourself in order to determine the true need. I never knew what a need was, or that I had a right to have any needs. When I was little I was shamed for my needs, so access to the intuitive messaging system in my psyche that I have a specific need was lost along the way. Thankfully you can get the knowledge back and learn the language of your own intuition, your own needs. Your needs express themselves in a variety of ways, from thoughts, to feelings to body sensations. Learning the language of your own needs Intulexia is crucial to contacting your own best friend the child hidden within. I can't tell you the relief I've felt when I finally recognised a need of my child within and was able to meet that need. Whew! It is worth the letting go to figure this out. <br /><br />6. Meet your own child withins needs.<br /><br />Meeting your own child withins needs involves recognising your needs in the first place. Taking action to meet your actual needs without dissociating into your nearest addiction is a huge step towards befriending your child within. Meeting your own emotional needs is not easy in the beginning because you may have been blocked from getting your needs met for so long; however, it is possible to get some relief by meeting your own needs today. Meet your own needs by taking action, getting out of the house, positive meditational affirmations, visualisation, tending to your child within, making friends with someone safe, allowing some grey area. Just being there for you, sitting with your numbness, sharing your pain .<br /><br /> 7. Take action on your child withins behalf Intulexia.<br /><br />Every time you take action to recover, to be alone with yourself, to relate to safe others, to take care of your physical body, to journal, to get in touch with your intuitive voice, to meet your child withions needs--every time you do anything for yourself, you are opening the way for your child within to come out and shine. Any time you TAKE ACTION to meet your own intuitive needs, to take care of yourself, you are being a friend to your child within</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">. Taking care of you paves the way for loving relationships with your child within, with others, with the universe and with life. Every time you answer the call of your own child within to be there instead of rushing to the nearest dissociational external source of validation, you are being a friend to yourself and allowing your child within to return into the light where we all belong.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Your child within has gone into hiding, especially in our culture today which is based on the notion that people are sinful and need to be punished. Generations before have passed along a legacy of toxic shame and self hatred. We have been raised to be unconscious and self-harming. We've paid a huge price for the ignorance of our parents and our parent's, parents, et al. This abandonment of the true self has led to addictions such as workaholism, alcoholism, sex addiction, love addiction, gambling addiction, internet addiction, porn addiction and a number of other serious assaults to the child within and to true feelings of reality. If we are to combat the numbness of self annihilation through recovery, we must begin by finding our child within returning to our own best friend.<br /><br />The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</span></div>

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You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiegFWE5e6JIZ-hWbgbYT9nzDgIm7E3e-Vq2St48tnKkYDWmMOs1xs2Ze2YTjtmMLMZUwY9PWCVSMvQW8-gtRiwjnaYhkUBPQ1eaOMiwLHAvJ3sE19Bku9bPSNphaQJUegAea9ycMcRXYM8/s1600/the_child_within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiegFWE5e6JIZ-hWbgbYT9nzDgIm7E3e-Vq2St48tnKkYDWmMOs1xs2Ze2YTjtmMLMZUwY9PWCVSMvQW8-gtRiwjnaYhkUBPQ1eaOMiwLHAvJ3sE19Bku9bPSNphaQJUegAea9ycMcRXYM8/s320/the_child_within.jpg" width="307" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">These are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to make an experiment with themselves. You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within. All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works. Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> 1. Our child within is alive, always has been and always will be. 2. Child within is perfect knows everything. 3. Child within can do anything. 4. Child within can be everywhere - all at the same time. (These are the important differences between child within and us manufactured human beings). 5. The child within is invisible-we can’t see or touch our child. But our child is here, is with you now, is beside you, surrounds you, fills the room or the whole place where you are now, is in you now, in your heart. 6. Child cares very much for you, is interested in you, has a plan for your life, has an answer for every need and problem you face. 7. Our Child Within will tell you all that you need to know, will not always tell you all that you want to know. 8. Child will help you do anything that it asks you to do. 9. Anyone can be in touch with our child within, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed. </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">These are the conditions: - To be quiet and still - To listen - To be honest about every thought that comes - To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from our child within - To obey So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to our child within: </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">1. Take Time Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil. 2. Relax Sit in a comfortable position. Consciously relax all your muscles. Be loose. There is no hurry. There needs to be no strain during these minutes. our child cannot get through to us if we are tense and anxious about later responsibilities. 3. Tune In Open your heart to your child within. Either silently or aloud, just say to your child in a natural way that you would like to find a plan for your life-you want an answer to the problem or situation that you are facing just now. Be definite and specific in your request. 4. Listen Just be still, quiet, relaxed and open. Let your mind go “loose.” Let your child within do the talking. Thoughts, ideas, and impressions will begin to come into your mind and heart. Be alert and aware and open to every one. 5. Write! Here is the important key to the whole process. Write down everything that comes into your mind. Everything. Writing is simply a means of recording so that you can remember later. Don’t sort out or edit your thoughts at this point. Don’t say to yourself: This thought isn’t important; This is just an ordinary thought; This can’t be guidance; This isn’t nice; This can’t be from my child; This is just me thinking…., etc. Write down everything that passes through your mind: Names of people; Things to do; Things to say; Things that are wrong and need to be made right. Write down everything: Good thoughts - bad thoughts; Comfortable thoughts - uncomfortable thoughts; thoughts of thoughts; Sensible thoughts - “crazy” thoughts. Be honest! Write down everything! A thought comes quickly, and it escapes even more quickly unless it is captured and put down. 6. Test When the flow of thoughts slows down, stop. Take a good look at what you have written. Not every thought we have comes from our child. So we need to test our thoughts. Here is where the written record helps us to be able to look at them. a) Are these thoughts completely honest, pure, unselfish and loving? b) Are these thoughts in line with our child within c) Are these thoughts in line with our understanding 7. Check When in doubt and when it is important, what does another person who is communicating with a child within think about this thought or action? More light comes in through two windows than one. Someone else who also wants the child withins plan for our lives may help us to see more clearly. Talk over together what you have written. Many people do this. They tell each other what guidance has come. This is the secret of unity. There are always three sides to every question-your side, my side, and the right side. Guidance shows us which is the right side-not who is right, but what is right. 8. Obey Carry out the thoughts that have come. You will only be sure of guidance as you go through it. A rudder will not guide a boat until the boat is moving. As you obey, very often the results will convince you that you are on the right track. 9. Blocks? What if I don’t seem to get any definite thoughts? Guidance is as freely available as the air we breathe. If I am not receiving thoughts when I listen, the fault is not our child within. Usually it is because there is something I will not do: - something wrong in my life that I will not face and make right; - a habit or indulgence I will not give up. - a person I will not forgive; - a wrong relationship in my life I will not give up; - a restitution I will not make; - something my intuitive voice has already told me to do that I will not obey. Check these points and be honest. Then try listening again. 10. Mistakes Supposing I make a mistake and do something of my intuitive voice that isn’t right? Of course we make mistakes? We are humans with many faults. However, our child within will always honour our sincerity. will work around and through every honest mistake we make, will help us make it right. But remember this! Sometimes when we do obey our child within, someone else may not like it or agree with it. So when there is opposition, it doesn’t always mean you have made a mistake. It can mean that the other person doesn’t want to know or to do what is right. Supposing I fail to do something that I have been told and the opportunity to do it passes? There is only one thing to do. Put it right with our child within. Tell you’re sorry. Ask for understanding , then accept </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">that awakening and begin again. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our child within is not an impersonal computer, understanding us far better than we do. 11. Results? We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds a new wisdom, not of their own, which comes into their minds and that the power and authority greater than human power begins to operate in their lives.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with their child within, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfil the conditions of contact. When we listen, child within speaks. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When we obeys our inner intuitive voice, our child acts. This is meditation. Our Child withins plan for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to listen to their intuitive voice.</span></div> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within.

These are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to make an experiment with themselves. You can discover for yourself the mos...

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The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each of us have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiylBBOTMFY0QMLDCkQhP_lhLvU4GpK9RU9VDDhnDWgaVgi1fIh_WahifHaeyUmLnWxXINk_qlVXJiubNg0C5HuoP2RpUWcpluRACMwzvfDx1xBYnkBNrcFy8-9Qfi_WiBEu4j36mBAjkau/s1600/578803_163768017080582_265724398_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiylBBOTMFY0QMLDCkQhP_lhLvU4GpK9RU9VDDhnDWgaVgi1fIh_WahifHaeyUmLnWxXINk_qlVXJiubNg0C5HuoP2RpUWcpluRACMwzvfDx1xBYnkBNrcFy8-9Qfi_WiBEu4j36mBAjkau/s320/578803_163768017080582_265724398_n.jpg" width="295" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each of us have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey and returning whence we originally came from expedites our true recovery. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Experience has taught us that all the answers to life are within the ten stages point us in this direction. Ultimately it is up to us to recover our child within. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The struggle and the responsibility are ours, and ours alone. Our </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> program of recovery, rests on our experience that unresolved traumas from childhood block our connection with our true self, the child within. Where we remain traumatised we act out unconsciously and destructively in any number of ways, according to the templates of our traumatised past. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We recover by resolving these traumas. This recovery connects us to the river of truth that runs through all things, frees our deeper gifts, and opens us up to our life’s purpose. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">These ten stages</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> are a universal pathway to healing our ancient emotional trauma. They lead us out of the darkness of our unconscious lives and into the enlightenment of our full conscious connection with our personal truth. They are the backbone of the recovery process, but like a backbone they are flexible. They are suggestions, not the law, and they strive only to guide us within. Ultimately we need not trust anyone else’s words, platform, or methods; our own inner template provides the best map of all. Recovery is complex. Our traumas tangled us up, and at times our growth process reflects these tangles. Some facets of our personality can be awakened while other parts remain buried and traumatised. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Grieving, a process necessary for restoring the true self, often has a life of its own. For these reasons, we can work one stage at a time, or we can work several at once. We can repeat several early stages before moving on to an advanced one, or we can repeat several advanced stages before returning to an earlier one. If recovery were simple and linear everyone would be long since recovered. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The ten stages is intended to help us make sense of the recovery</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> process, to understand its dynamics, and to apply this to our lives. Our goal is to awaken, and we hope these stages, and the wisdom they contain, helps you move closer closer.</span><br /> <div> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each of us have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey

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In our storylines, we come to conclusions about ourselves and our world and make judgments about who we are, about whether or not our needs and feelings are OK or not.

<blockquote class="tr_bq"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHjxQ6rLA_HpqInrQ6DMZ_ljz7fF_lsidtaZx5n0ZS-6VGLXMEhA-tjA14b1AK6ZShgDgmq8duskpgKx5YOyNl6oCT2Jf_791HcAamcqOvhVvYJmUH06RCbg-fcZBa_bF4VTFMm7eXXjii/s1600/gdchild+within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="167" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHjxQ6rLA_HpqInrQ6DMZ_ljz7fF_lsidtaZx5n0ZS-6VGLXMEhA-tjA14b1AK6ZShgDgmq8duskpgKx5YOyNl6oCT2Jf_791HcAamcqOvhVvYJmUH06RCbg-fcZBa_bF4VTFMm7eXXjii/s200/gdchild+within.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Awareness is that part of us that perceives, observes and witnesses our thoughts, feelings, behaviours and body—the clothing awareness puts on—and we need to discover what is underneath. We need to realise that awareness lives at the innermost core of our being. When our awareness is in the present moment, we’re in touch with who we really are, with our very essence.<br />Being in the present is being one with each heartbeat, each in-breath, each out-breath, from moment to moment…We only have our next breath, our next heartbeat, or we would not exist.<br />The past and future are only concepts, we only have the now…<br />What prevents us from being in the present moment?<br />Our reactive thinking prevents us from being in the present moment. From our earliest life encounters, our reactive thoughts create storylines about our experiences. We bring our cognitive and emotional development as a five-year-old to our experiences of parents, family, love, safety and fear.<br />In our storylines, we come to conclusions about ourselves and our world and make judgments about who we are, about whether or not our needs and feelings are OK or not. These storylines remain with us through adolescence and into adulthood. Throughout our life we add storylines and pile them one on top of the other. Our inner critic is an outgrowth of the conclusions we reach about who we are.<br />We are not our thoughts. We are not our storylines.<br />Our reactive thoughts create stress, fears and anxieties, our inner critic is a testimonial to this reactive-thinking, storyline-created life. Our reactive thinking creates suffering. Up to 85 percent of our life is spent in reactive thinking, either rehashing the past or rehearsing the future. We are incomplete, never good enough, always striving for completion.<br />Being in the present moment.<br />When our awareness is in the present, we are no longer scattered, we are at one with ourselves in the moment. We are at home with our essence. We are the witnessing, observing awareness of our thoughts and feelings, our doubts, our fears and suffering. Our thoughts reflect an insightfulness, creativity and wisdom far beyond anything that our reactive thinking can imagine. We move from a life of doing to a life of being who we are, being at one with ourselves in the present moment.</span></blockquote> <br />The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</blockquote>

In our storylines, we come to conclusions about ourselves and our world and make judgments about who we are, about whether or not our needs and feelings are OK or not.

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To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjD0IW8CojzEKLDvNk5LkprAMuTgoL1eDIVM4RZjrMqSvyMd8XKw-lr8jO2bH5lmYaAljHCj4VpGdhY9FBsTEjt2AEW2_woHtEupPg0lNI6-AITy5aK6r4QmcSmoUKQZwkF2TY_kQkPFaeh/s1600/Connected89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjD0IW8CojzEKLDvNk5LkprAMuTgoL1eDIVM4RZjrMqSvyMd8XKw-lr8jO2bH5lmYaAljHCj4VpGdhY9FBsTEjt2AEW2_woHtEupPg0lNI6-AITy5aK6r4QmcSmoUKQZwkF2TY_kQkPFaeh/s320/Connected89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness. We must develop a feeling of "I" that is different from the one we have now. We all have the experience of constant chatter in our heads. We are always thinking something, responding to something, imagining something. We say "I" to each activity in our mind: "I hate this . . . I am this . . . I want this." But this flood of constant response and talk in our brain is nothing more than life acting on our personality and our personality responding to it. We can form in ourselves, in our own child within, a little bit of awareness that can stand back from that torrent of thought and activity and simply see -- without response to it, without judgement or justification</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness.

To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the ...

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As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkIll5owWKth2wbyzp26RtpKtaLfpzczT-aomgtMptjRtSK7p-0owdMyZJ6l6NSACQ_5JRqDj1GL55fgl6Nyv7idpyjCXFbt5POMPOWYVTAlohkNMZBq5UU4LYk1E0LnQ8_8evjjhhzwoU/s1600/did63.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkIll5owWKth2wbyzp26RtpKtaLfpzczT-aomgtMptjRtSK7p-0owdMyZJ6l6NSACQ_5JRqDj1GL55fgl6Nyv7idpyjCXFbt5POMPOWYVTAlohkNMZBq5UU4LYk1E0LnQ8_8evjjhhzwoU/s320/did63.jpg" width="224" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within it becomes a lonely path.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We must leave much behind, including conventional friends and limited family members. We must also leave behind old definitions of self, constructed and endorsed by the culture. This too is a great loss.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">As outgrown, external structure collapses, our child within has a chance to emerge. But this child within is tested to be true. Can it hold our developing and authentic, sense of self? Can we shun the noise of the world and its claims of authority in our lives to listen to the subtle voice of truth at our core? Can we stake our claim in an internal identity, apart from the seductive allure of the external world and the majority that conforms to it? Can we live from within as the outer world shouts its outrage at our defiance of its supremacy?</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">It takes great courage to live from within and out of our core of truth our child within. And the transition from outer definition to inner truth is a lonely path that few travel. That’s why it’s good to listen in quiet reflection to the voice of truth that whispers encouraging words and reassuring support that we are actually not alone at all—but surrounded by universal forces that delight in our daring venture to live out of what’s best in us and best in all reality. With that realisation, even during what feels like our loneliness moment, we see we are not alone, but with the best company of all—our true self and the forces of nature and the universe that delight in our being true.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within

As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within it becomes a lonely path. We must lea...

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Staying connected to who you really are!

<div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3JhA0GqClfV56-wAL1DP4qQQV8MPG0vGmrfgdXr9F_LlUPeE7IvWzJMDJn6dmshnyoqWolHywjMnIhXCqmV49kUCrh2fzBuLZVS4PSrh9nfwgj8NPRns3joe_Asm7f-ZIBW9CObyKdlT6/s1600/Connected89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3JhA0GqClfV56-wAL1DP4qQQV8MPG0vGmrfgdXr9F_LlUPeE7IvWzJMDJn6dmshnyoqWolHywjMnIhXCqmV49kUCrh2fzBuLZVS4PSrh9nfwgj8NPRns3joe_Asm7f-ZIBW9CObyKdlT6/s320/Connected89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Staying connected to who you really are!</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">What's that mean?</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">It means to remember that you are a child within looking out. You have come here not to be needy and take, but to be full and give away to the world from that place of fullness.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, the desire to chase, to grasp and to yearn stops. You remember that you are a child within and were created to fulfil a very special purpose.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You remember that one of the great promises of recovery is that you will be provided for as you walk along the path of your child within. The fearful mind calms and the mind full of Faith emerges.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You remember that you are enough as you are and that nothing can prove otherwise, other than your own admission that you are less than who you really are.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you really are, you surround yourself with <span class="il">loving</span> people. You bask in your recovery and no longer accept or tolerate abuse and hate.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You pull back from judging others and instead keep your eyes on your child within purifying your own desires and intentions.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You line up your thoughts with your child's and then the actions and the fruits of  recovery naturally follow. You let go of the need to control and let your intuitive voice fill in the gaps, because our child within is super intelligent and knows what you need even more than you do.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you really are, you recover yourself and your intuitive voice enough to take care of your body with healthy foods, exercise, yoga and breath. You recover your mind enough to not let it run the show, and instead make time for meditation to calm it down so your Child Within shines through.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, you embrace challenge and catastrophe with acceptance rather than disdain. You know that with the Light comes the Dark and that both are needed in the dance of Life.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, you are attractive to those who believe what you believe. You don't see rejection as bad, but rather as a sorting device keeping unhealthy matches away from you. You naturally and effortlessly find <span class="il">Love</span> because you already embody It.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, life ceases to become difficult and transforms into an adventure you can't wait to take.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <br /> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> </div> <br /> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #0b175f; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"> <div style="margin: 0px;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, you live your life following your Heart so that when you get to the end, you say: "What a ride!" instead of wondering, "What if I had...?"</span></div> </div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Staying connected to who you really are!

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Here are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to have an experiment with themselves.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivXKT2HQO9jALWJH1mHkL0Uh6-LWTnUHkp6rl7AOnWa4lx8SwjgNS2Me0fcwz1QufFlWW7D0CevwtvpI5BkgPwbe4anGNtuvzPW3RtDLxCJATuuiizGcuQEvMR8wVuGzzIg_uwPwzgstBS/s1600/10411058_876657455685464_3492310646841484710_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivXKT2HQO9jALWJH1mHkL0Uh6-LWTnUHkp6rl7AOnWa4lx8SwjgNS2Me0fcwz1QufFlWW7D0CevwtvpI5BkgPwbe4anGNtuvzPW3RtDLxCJATuuiizGcuQEvMR8wVuGzzIg_uwPwzgstBS/s320/10411058_876657455685464_3492310646841484710_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Here are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to have an experiment with themselves. You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within. All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works.</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> 1. Our child within is alive, always has been and always will be. 2. Child within is perfect knows everything. 3. Child within can do anything. 4. Child within can be everywhere - all at the same time. (These are the important differences between child within and us manufactured human beings). 5. The child within is invisible-we can’t see or touch our child. But our child is here, is with you now, is beside you, surrounds you, fills the room or the whole place where you are now, is in you now, in your heart. 6. Child cares very much for you, is interested in you, has a plan for your life, has an answer for every need and problem you face. 7. Our Child Within will tell you all that you need to know, will not always tell you all that you want to know. 8. Child will help you do anything that it asks you to do. 9. Anyone can be in touch with our child within, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed. These are the conditions: - To be quiet and still - To listen - To be honest about every thought that comes - To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from our child within - To obey So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to our child within:</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> 1. Take Time Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil. 2. Relax Sit in a comfortable position. Consciously relax all your muscles. Be loose. There is no hurry. There needs to be no strain during these minutes. our child cannot get through to us if we are tense and anxious about later responsibilities. 3. Tune In Open your heart to your child within. Either silently or aloud, just say to your child in a natural way that you would like to find a plan for your life-you want an answer to the problem or situation that you are facing just now. Be definite and specific in your request. 4. Listen Just be still, quiet, relaxed and open. Let your mind go “loose.” Let your child within do the talking. Thoughts, ideas, and impressions will begin to come into your mind and heart. Be alert and aware and open to every one. 5. Write! Here is the important key to the whole process. Write down everything that comes into your mind. Everything. Writing is simply a means of recording so that you can remember later. Don’t sort out or edit your thoughts at this point. Don’t say to yourself: This thought isn’t important; This is just an ordinary thought; This can’t be guidance; This isn’t nice; This can’t be from my child; This is just me thinking…., etc. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Write down everything that passes through your mind: Names of people; Things to do; Things to say; Things that are wrong and need to be made right. Write down everything: Good thoughts - bad thoughts; Comfortable thoughts - uncomfortable thoughts; thoughts of thoughts; Sensible thoughts - “crazy” thoughts. Be honest! Write down everything! A thought comes quickly, and it escapes even more quickly unless it is captured and put down. 6. Test When the flow of thoughts slows down, stop. Take a good look at what you have written. Not every thought we have comes from our child. So we need to test our thoughts. Here is where the written record helps us to be able to look at them. a) Are these thoughts completely honest, pure, unselfish and loving? b) Are these thoughts in line with our child within c) Are these thoughts in line with our understanding 7. Check When in doubt and when it is important, what does another person who is communicating with a child within think about this thought or action? More light comes in through two windows than one. Someone else who also wants the child withins plan for our lives may help us to see more clearly. Talk over together what you have written. Many people do this. They tell each other what guidance has come. This is the secret of unity. There are always three sides to every question-your side, my side, and the right side. Guidance shows us which is the right side-not who is right, but what is right. 8. Obey Carry out the thoughts that have come. You will only be sure of guidance as you go through it. A rudder will not guide a boat until the boat is moving. As you obey, very often the results will convince you that you are on the right track. 9. Blocks? What if I don’t seem to get any definite thoughts? Guidance is as freely available as the air we breathe. If I am not receiving thoughts when I listen, the fault is not our child within. Usually it is because there is something I will not do: - something wrong in my life that I will not face and make right; - a habit or indulgence I will not give up. - a person I will not forgive; - a wrong relationship in my life I will not give up; - a restitution I will not make; - something my intuitive voice has already told me to do that I will not obey. Check these points and be honest. Then try listening again. 10. Mistakes Supposing I make a mistake and do something of my intuitive voice that isn’t right? Of course we make mistakes? We are humans with many faults. However, our child within will always honour our sincerity. will work around and through every honest mistake we make, will help us make it right. But remember this! Sometimes when we do obey our child within, someone else may not like it or agree with it. So when there is opposition, it doesn’t always mean you have made a mistake. It can mean that the other person doesn’t want to know or to do what is right. Supposing I fail to do something that I have been told and the opportunity to do it passes? There is only one thing to do. Put it right with God. Tell Him you’re sorry. Ask Him to forgive you, then accept His forgiveness and begin again. Our child within is not an impersonal computer, understanding us far better than we do. 11. Results? We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds a wisdom, not their own, comes into their minds and that a Power greater than human power begins to operate in their lives. It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with their child within, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfil the conditions of contact. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When we listen, child within speaks. When we obeys our inner voice, our child acts. This is meditation. Our Child withins plan for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to listen to their intuitive voice.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

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Who you are, is something much grander that what you see when you look in the mirror.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwOSGkDVkPb3Ley4NozKl1BfeIr0_UGnQ5a0KGEvfzwdpFtZMfmkjedmjrFv0hogSlKHaz91SjgK4WjcY8OzNx8AdB9CjMWplk-XN5ARK6BO1L8iOQ6zDGcJUXIq13sT04ww6Zp_yx4Lrx/s1600/assign89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwOSGkDVkPb3Ley4NozKl1BfeIr0_UGnQ5a0KGEvfzwdpFtZMfmkjedmjrFv0hogSlKHaz91SjgK4WjcY8OzNx8AdB9CjMWplk-XN5ARK6BO1L8iOQ6zDGcJUXIq13sT04ww6Zp_yx4Lrx/s320/assign89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Consciousness is something fundamental to nature - it is stitched into the very fabric of reality. The brain receives and processes consciousness. Who you are, is something much grander that what you see when you look in the mirror.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Consciousness transcends time and space. Funnily enough, science is arriving at the same conclusion when examining the subatomic world.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Recent experiments in quantum physics show us that the universe is interconnected. The technical term is entanglement. The basic idea is that if two particles have been connected then they remain connected no matter how far apart they might be. With a certain class of particles, known as fermions, no two can be in the same state in the entire universe.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Here’s something that will blow your mind: when you think a thought you affect the fermions in your brain. In some weird way the entire universe has to agree with you, in that every fermion (and there’s about 1080 in the universe) has to take the state of the ones in your brain into account. Everything is connected!</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Yes, the universe hears you!! It hears your wishes, your desires, your hopes and your dreams, and even your thoughts about yourself. That is a fact!!</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

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Positive Healthy Recovery Growth our worldwide membership is growing larger by the moment filling our students with a positive message exploding the myths of the roots of addiction

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg88y9AlYw2NdEvgQhVdnN1kJBRtjd13KisaT2SBTyO7ie6RrTkKy8p45equm_Ac8xy5EQrbPT9TRZ4WZYGRFth3GzFnfBfnO_pdT3ICsZYF9pIGb3_OO_wLQktQbtL8BDn6FD4Bli9/s1600/12527596_1069162426448833_1481829405_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg88y9AlYw2NdEvgQhVdnN1kJBRtjd13KisaT2SBTyO7ie6RrTkKy8p45equm_Ac8xy5EQrbPT9TRZ4WZYGRFth3GzFnfBfnO_pdT3ICsZYF9pIGb3_OO_wLQktQbtL8BDn6FD4Bli9/s320/12527596_1069162426448833_1481829405_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Positive Healthy Recovery Growth our worldwide membership is growing larger by the moment filling our students with a positive message exploding the myths of the roots of addiction.And offering for the first time real healthy positive practical solutions<br />|<br />The Ten Stages</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Positive Healthy Recovery Growth our worldwide membership is growing larger by the moment filling our students with a positive message exploding the myths of the roots of addiction

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Our Healthy children have no need to apologise they have done nothing wrong they are and have perfection as a gift of birth.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin_A3a1X1qdKkNb1xVlzolZ-kb-aiTHjKdtDPrX9qqdVdueB82_jb2HJlT6wu8G4cWi1FalsjyE_gpN4O59cLrbL8V25tyOw_blJMRxMmb7_JqObwMvHktghibRpHalbH8Fj2GfalJbcrD/s1600/Free69.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin_A3a1X1qdKkNb1xVlzolZ-kb-aiTHjKdtDPrX9qqdVdueB82_jb2HJlT6wu8G4cWi1FalsjyE_gpN4O59cLrbL8V25tyOw_blJMRxMmb7_JqObwMvHktghibRpHalbH8Fj2GfalJbcrD/s320/Free69.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our child within needs to experience the feelings of being worthy and welcome, not bent out of shape, angry, or apologetic about their existence.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">In other places you will see misguided people talking about the inner child this is a travesty of our belief . The inner child is a description of someone looking into a child's bedroom an observer, a threatening stranger, a shadow self.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">For us the child within is the perfect child who is lying on the bed, our child hidden within who is perfect and whole in every way.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our child is not sick or wounded but whole and incredibly healthy and awaiting to connect to us.Do not believe in the sick explanations of crippled adults who come from a point of observation, not truth and healthy contact with us, but a sick and abusive pathology. Our Healthy children have no need to apologise they have done nothing wrong they are and have perfection as a gift of birth.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Our Healthy children have no need to apologise they have done nothing wrong they are and have perfection as a gift of birth.

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We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others

<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUS0zEEWOa0kw4X2x05vRJoX82ZioUNpZXsuYF3zgVL2NNEyZe-SlsPT372rFkYDGncdfpf0oPY31qKyliWj5HQ63t_gDG0KhMfNn8M0qOpsF5olSYRj3g97AGywWQYotlTBJzUQEPDxsk/s1600/13615260_761050534036649_4023140416478485672_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUS0zEEWOa0kw4X2x05vRJoX82ZioUNpZXsuYF3zgVL2NNEyZe-SlsPT372rFkYDGncdfpf0oPY31qKyliWj5HQ63t_gDG0KhMfNn8M0qOpsF5olSYRj3g97AGywWQYotlTBJzUQEPDxsk/s320/13615260_761050534036649_4023140416478485672_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others, culture and dissociations. By doing so, We have constructed an artificial, virtual cage. The bars distort our perception of our reality. Therefore, we live in an unfair, dishonest society in which the rich become richer, the poor become poorer and where nobody knows the right direction. Because everybody is convinced of the idea that there is no way back only progress is an option without anybody knowing where this progress will lead.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others

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If we return to ourself as the child within, we will reach a new perception of ourself.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHhCBIPQ2FzFF1VDubAPpqPBBi9Vuq-1ieKBrG3Ey7NtNqcHgEhVqccjQkjg0Kg-YhQdBkuAMRlkVIUExUdMKDRvXGSZfeLFcY9Gd3q4E9JggDpC0T7HYGaRmjvnNzOZPvCc5jNIQxWIo8/s1600/within+child.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHhCBIPQ2FzFF1VDubAPpqPBBi9Vuq-1ieKBrG3Ey7NtNqcHgEhVqccjQkjg0Kg-YhQdBkuAMRlkVIUExUdMKDRvXGSZfeLFcY9Gd3q4E9JggDpC0T7HYGaRmjvnNzOZPvCc5jNIQxWIo8/s1600/within+child.jpeg" /></a></div> <br /> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: center; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">If we return to ourself as the child within, we</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> will reach a new perception of ourself. Children are still not split between the dissociated self and the child within . Therefore, we automatically give up our learned behaviours, stop our play-acting and take off our masks. Our outside starts to</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> resemble our inside. We must disengage ourself from all that is considered normal, from all spuriousness and dishonesty. Because the difference in tension between the inside and the outside causes our emotions. If the inside and outside coincide, you have reached apatheia (<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">refers to a state of mind where one is not disturbed by the passions. It is best translated by the word equanimity rather than indifference).</span> The feminine woman and the masculine man are products of culture and their behaviour is taught and false. The only difference between man and woman is gender, the rest is learned frill and is on the outside. True man is himself. You see, but differently; you feel, but differently; you walk, but differently; you look the same, but you are different. Then, <i>our inside equals your outside</i>.This is a mis-print that I intend to meditate on.Your help is needed.</span><br /> <div> <div> <div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div> </div> </div> </div>

If we return to ourself as the child within, we will reach a new perception of ourself.

If we return to ourself as the child within, we  will reach a new perception of ourself. Children are still not split between the disso...

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