The Ten Stages is a constantly evolving course of teachings fit for purpose in our ever changing modern world.It is the only course to come from a healthy non-blaming or shaming source

The Ten Stages is a constantly evolving course of teachings fit for purpose in our ever changing modern world.It is the only course to come from a healthy non-blaming or shaming source and we do not accept that their is addiction, but only the self shaming description of a failed social society that constantly labels that which it does not understand or fails to want to understand.  We often where relevant borrow from other sources to illustrate our journey and in that mode we take an expression from the book A Course In Miracles, ‘Would you rather be right or happy?’ speaks, in a simplified fashion. The shadow-self cares primarily about being right—right that we know, or right that we are not good enough, or right that we are too good, or right that we are a powerless victim, or right that we cannot trust life or love owing to previous experiences, and so on. Dissociation and Calcination is the process of beginning understand that part of our stubbornness, pride, and arrogance worn down. (These forms of old survival strategies stubbornness, pride, or arrogance need not only express as an outwardly puffed up nature; indeed, more commonly it tends to disguise itself in shyness, self-doubt, or self-sabotage).

The sooner we understand the point that in most cases we are the sublimated hidden child within of our own frustrations and failures, the better, because we can avoid years of unnecessary suffering. Ideally the recovery path is about hastening the process of destruction caused by our dissociations, rather than it being drawn out over the course of a whole life, only to realise in old age just how intransigent and controlling we have always been. The reason why this process is so essential is because the child without that we cling to, the sense of personal identity, the ‘me’ that we invest so much energy in maintaining, is ultimately illusory, based as it is on identification (with body, form, history, borrowed knowledge, and so on). Ageing

, and eventually death, will wear down and destroy this false self in time. Learning to let go of constructed mental positions, pride, excessive stubbornness, reactive blame of others, playing small owing to crippling self-doubt, and fear of confronting our falsehoods, will hasten the process and potentially give us more time to experience and connect to our deeper nature of our child within while still alive.The child without has become totally risk adverse frozen in its numb bubble.








The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages