The simple truth of the ten stages is that none of us escapes being conditioned by the ideas and agendas of others.

The simple truth of the ten stages is that none of us escapes being conditioned by the ideas and agendas of others. The task is to begin bravely recognising this conditioning, and moving beyond it. We have to recognise just what is truly ours, and what we have merely borrowed, inherited, or otherwise uncritically bought into. To begin to let go of our borrowed ideas is to begin to become truly ‘pure in heart’. This type of freer heart is capable of recognising deep truth.

Loving-Kindfulness Meditation and all forms of legitimate transformational work ultimately amount to a type of de-conditioning—or as one sage once put it, ‘de-hypnosis’. We have to un-learn much, in order to create the space inwardly, so to speak, to allow fresh, clear, and natural wisdom to arise.


The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages