Welcome to the living room a healing experience without chaos and drama: To begin to understand dissociation is to understand the confiden...
Structured Study Course The Ten Stages We re-learn the art of making contact with ourselves to tell the story of our child withins life.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Our Vision is to see recovery friends living meaningful, productive, personally satisfying and well supported lives, Structured Study C...
Stagers, (one who has joined The Ten Stages and the child within) are persons who journeys into lifes social wilderness
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Stagers, ( one who has joined The Ten Stages and the child within ) are persons who journeys into lifes social wilderness, away from the c...
Some of the incredible science behind the ten stages.A fossil caught in the frozen lava of a volcanic childhood.1
Author: Fraser Trevor
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A fossil caught in the frozen lava of a volcanic childhood. 1 Over two decades ago, publications by Meltzoff & Moore ( 1977) alert...
Abuse and disrespect has many forms. Expropriating one's childhood in favour of an adults pursuits is one of the subtlest varieties of shadow self creation.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Abuse and disrespect has many forms. Expropriating one's childhood in favour of an adults pursuits is one of the subtlest varieties of...
Dissociation inventing ourself, WE the dissociated sees no problem in re-inventing that which was designed in the first place. We the dissociated are our own creator.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We the dissociated has been conditioned - from an early age of abuse and trauma - to expect the unexpected. It is a world in motion where ...
Loving-Kindfulness starts with you learning healthy self protection. Child Within Chill
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Loving-Kindfulness starts with you learning healthy self protection. Child Within Chill - A ten stage method used to disengage oneself f...
My Child Within Stuff/Your Child Within Stuff
Author: Fraser Trevor
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My Child Within Stuff/Your Child Within Stuff is a ten stage technique of reminding ourself to separate what is really our responsibility,...
The Program Clean Up
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Program Clean Up - The Clean Up says that we get to clean up our own messes. It is a principal that encourages us to take responsibil...
Make Good Ten Stage Choices
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Make Good Ten Stage Choices - Although it may seem like an obvious statement to make, it is important to devote our energy to making good ...
Taking a Ten Stage Time Out Zone
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Ten Stage Time Out Zone:A Time-Out Zone is a decision to temporarily disengage from an argument, conversation, interpersonal situation or ...
Self-medication with alcohol is voluntary dissociation its a choice.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Self-medication with alcohol is voluntary dissociation its a choice. The functioning alcoholic drinks to split off from the reality of his...
Each Child Withins thinking is as unique as the DNA inside them.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Each Child Withins thinking is as unique as the DNA inside them. - We can't interpret the thoughts and behaviours of a student based o...
Lacking Recovery as an option, these feelings instead express themselves as symptoms in our life, of which addiction is just one subset.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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For many of us, who have spent years in recovery groups we acknowledge that our inability to heal does not stop our unresolved feelings fr...
Transitioning from our shadow self-constructed self to our amalgamated whole child within
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Transitioning from our shadow self-constructed self to our amalgamated whole child within inside our perfect inner core truth is our lon...
We belong to our child within. We must remember this if we are to be real and true.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We belong to our child within. We must remember this if we are to be real and true.we belong to our child within, to nature and to truth,...
For The Child Within who follow this course Gas-lighting becomes a major problem and an issue of control by others
Author: Fraser Trevor
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For The Child Within who follow this course Gas-lighting becomes a major problem and an issue of control by others it threatens the ten st...
Dissociation flies in the face of pure logic and can appear irrational, illogical and counter-intuitive.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Dissociation flies in the face of pure logic and can appear irrational, illogical and counter-intuitive. Dissociation may mean believing o...
We all have developed an inner judgemental critic, a critical parent voice
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We all have developed an inner judgemental critic, a critical parent voice, that beats us up with shame, judgement, and fear. The critical...
The Ten Stages can be an amazing, miraculous process
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages can be an amazing, miraculous process, that can help us to change our relationship with our self, with other people, a...
Child within understanding is a gentle form of probing our consciousness. We have a childhood mystery to solve.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Child within understanding is a gentle form of probing our consciousness. We have a childhood mystery to solve. Why have we been attracted...
This part of the ten stages is often characterised by experiencing the emotion of grief, and allowing ourselves to truly grieve painful incidents from our past that we may have long buried.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages examination of our constructed shadow self is directly related to our beginning to take responsibility for our dissociation...
The Ten Stages is a constantly evolving course of teachings fit for purpose in our ever changing modern world.It is the only course to come from a healthy non-blaming or shaming source
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages is a constantly evolving course of teachings fit for purpose in our ever changing modern world.It is the only course to com...
In The Ten Stage a separation stage is of crucial importance on the path of awakening to our child within
Author: Fraser Trevor
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In The Ten Stage a separation stage is of crucial importance on the path of awakening to our child within, if only because it is most comm...
The Child Within there is an apparent beginning to the experience of separate existence
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Child Within there is an apparent beginning to the experience of separate existence, and for each of us—as apparently separate beings...
As we finish The Ten Stages we have a different philosophy for our life.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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As we finish The Ten Stages we have a different philosophy for our life. Which leads us into The PROGRAM we come to focus on the child wi...
Our intention to awaken our child within will usually not be recognised by most people; or worse, may even be actively opposed or undermined by them.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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To be awake in a sleeping world is to be seen as eccentric (or worse). The conventional way of putting it is that a ‘prophet is never reco...
The simple truth of the ten stages is that none of us escapes being conditioned by the ideas and agendas of others.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The simple truth of the ten stages is that none of us escapes being conditioned by the ideas and agendas of others. The task is to begin b...
Courage is an essential quality of deep awakening in the ten stages
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Courage is an essential quality of deep awakening in the ten stages, because is can be daunting to peer into the face of the ego. However,...
Right now we’re in a special and powerful position, because we are having a loving-kindfulness awakening.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Right now we’re in a special and powerful position, because we are having a loving-kindfulness awakening. When Kindfulness speeds up there...
Any program, that thinks you can heal without fully exhuming, grieving, and ultimately healing your traumas is siding with your abusers and perpetuating the addictive cycle of self-delusion.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Avoiding the deepest levels of pain is part of group mentality. They replace the depression of the alcoholic/addict with the grandiosity...
Dissociation is a primary sickness, making us into very sick society.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Dissociation is a primary sickness, making us into very sick society. Forcing our minds to shear from our ability to see and discern, to e...
First are The Ten Stages then THE PROGRAM
Author: Fraser Trevor
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First are The Ten Stages then THE PROGRAM: Practicing loving-Kindfulness doesn’t mean we are a pushover. In fact, many times the first lov...
What is The Child Within?
Author: Fraser Trevor
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What is The Child Within?... at our conception, we are immaculate. We are born imbued with truth, a spark of the divine. And no matter w...