When we join The Ten Stages we quickly come to the realisation that we live out of a shadow self

 

When we join The Ten Stages we quickly come to the realisation that we live out of a shadow self, growth is equated to an increase in grandiosity, to winning the contest of life and accruing more money, power and prestige in a corrupt world.

When we live out of our child within, growth takes on a different meaning. Growth means an increase in consciousness and self-awareness, an increase in manifesting and refining our individual gifts of our child hidden within.

So how do we grow for real? We can’t get up in the morning and force growth to happen, but we can invite growth into our lives by providing the conditions for growth to occur.

We need to re-cultivate a relationship with our child within. We re-create, we must regenerate life-force to grow, and we must regenerate ourselves in a healthy life enhancing environment.

First, the child within must be viable within all of us—that’s the good news. The bad news for some is that our child within is buried so deep due trauma experienced during childhood and later years that re-connection seems impossible.

Second, we have to want to recover. The gift of motivation is part of our temperament enhanced by the strength of our child within.  

Third, we must re-discover ourselves in an environment that offers us opportunities for contact. We must be willing to move away from family and friends that would stunt our growth and thwart the manifestation of our gifts. We must dare to enter a wilderness, far from the comforts of convention and find a place that values authenticity and our unique gifts of connection to our child within.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages