Many of us, trauma sufferers emotionally “fly away” in our minds to escape the horror we are constantly re-experiencing. We remain connected with our parents. Our parents in childhood are our primary traumatisers, because when we were children they had more power over us than will anyone later in our life. It’s no surprise that parents, either overtly or covertly, symbolise so much in our subconscious, especially when our primary traumas start to bubble up.
We have learned advanced coping strategies that are strongly connected with our paralysis of thought and deed we have become frozen. Extreme traumatic experiences cause us psychosis and depression. And we the most traumatised of people do relive their trauma while awake – by actively recreating the surroundings of our first traumatic episodes propagating delusions of blame, shame and constant rescue.Recreating our primary abusers and traumatizers as friends constantly replaying the scenario within our own minds to gain a better outcome that never,never materialises.
Denial is involved to facilitate more abuse. our society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimises the rest; most of us do the same with our recovery. In this vein, we believe that we had a happy, non-traumatic childhood and are having a wonderful recovery this is constantly reinforced by others behaviour and others faulty recollections.
We then always have to involve our primary repetition compulsion. We are compulsively replicating our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them.
These further succeed in rupturing the borders of our disturbed personality. Traumatic experiences force their way through the self like a nail through a board, whereas in meditation a breathing time of peace allows the selfs attempt to pull the nail out of the board or at least not further traumatise the unresolved trauma of the past.
As such, both involve the essence of our life’s process. Traumatic experiences destroy life; meditation opens the door for hope to reclaim them and the ten stages coupled with the child within offers the tools to deal with them.
The Selfs recovery is likened to the classic rescue of the Count of Monte Cristos reinstatement back into the world and takes time, patience, gentleness and deep understanding.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages
We have learned advanced coping strategies that are strongly connected with our paralysis of thought and deed we have become frozen. Extreme traumatic experiences cause us psychosis and depression. And we the most traumatised of people do relive their trauma while awake – by actively recreating the surroundings of our first traumatic episodes propagating delusions of blame, shame and constant rescue.Recreating our primary abusers and traumatizers as friends constantly replaying the scenario within our own minds to gain a better outcome that never,never materialises.
Denial is involved to facilitate more abuse. our society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimises the rest; most of us do the same with our recovery. In this vein, we believe that we had a happy, non-traumatic childhood and are having a wonderful recovery this is constantly reinforced by others behaviour and others faulty recollections.
We then always have to involve our primary repetition compulsion. We are compulsively replicating our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them.
These further succeed in rupturing the borders of our disturbed personality. Traumatic experiences force their way through the self like a nail through a board, whereas in meditation a breathing time of peace allows the selfs attempt to pull the nail out of the board or at least not further traumatise the unresolved trauma of the past.
As such, both involve the essence of our life’s process. Traumatic experiences destroy life; meditation opens the door for hope to reclaim them and the ten stages coupled with the child within offers the tools to deal with them.
The Selfs recovery is likened to the classic rescue of the Count of Monte Cristos reinstatement back into the world and takes time, patience, gentleness and deep understanding.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages
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