At The Ten Stages we with compassion and the tools of our Loving-Kindfulness

At The Ten Stages we with compassion and the tools of our Loving-Kindfulness we undergo the disintegrating study of our grief, we cling to what is constant within us our core of truth the newly found relationship with our child within. 

What is collapsing around us is false our old shadow self. In Stage Three of the ten stages we made the decision to align with truth, and now we put our decision into practice. We are ready to endure the onslaught of feelings we have held in check for a lifetime, the upwelling grief over the tragedy of our childhood. Grieving is our true response to our traumas its the one response we were never allowed to feel. 

We have now created a safe and private space to feel our pain and our rage, and our hatred for our abusers. We recognize all these feelings as part of our grief process, and we embrace them. 

We acknowledge that our abusers hurt us because they failed to evolve beyond their own traumatic histories, but we do not exonerate their cruel errors. 

Instead we break the cycle. This will neither change our dismal past nor change those who abused us, but it will change us. Grieving is our rebirth into an honest child withins self.



The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages