You see, when we make someone else a Higher Power in our lives, we are REALLY setting ourselves up for pain,grief and suffering. This is the top cause of pain in our relationships with external forces and of breakups in relation to ourselves.
We are looking to someone or something else for something that can never be given to us, which is perfect and unwavering respect. There is only one place this type of unconditional respect comes from and that is our child hidden within.
The respect of our child within never changes; others change all the time. When we keep our eyes on our child and surrender to Its will for us, we take everyone else off the hook for our own happiness. We no longer seek to take respect from them, but to show up from a place of overflowing good will and give Loving kindfulness to them.
This kind of interior relationship creates givers and FORgivers. This is the cornerstone of having an awesome and long-lasting relationship with the most important person in your life YOU.
Are you making a person your Higher Power? Are you ready to take your eyes off of them and put your eyes instead toward your child within and accept Its perfect Loving Kindfulness for you? Can you see yourself and those you are in relationship with as imperfect human beings who are fallible and respect them anyway, not because they are fulfilling your every need, but because their child within meets you that is who you really are? Do you think you might be addicted to someone or some recovery thing?
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages
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