Those of us who have made a connection to our child within into maturity can approach conflict and an enemy in a non-reactive way.

Those of us who have made a connection to our  child within into maturity can approach conflict and an enemy in a non-reactive way. When an adult is re-connected, he or she possesses power, authority, and consciousness to confront the child within in another with detachment. A conscious child with adult can approach a conflict, hear its issues, and resolve the matter in a safe, measured manner. If others become attacking, violent children, then our self-defence needs to remain detached, and not become an excuse to act out unconscious rage in return. Our police, our armies, and we ourselves need to approach self-defence in an enlightened manner.

There will be actual enemies and threats to our rights and security, but conscious confrontation and peaceful resolution of conflict is possible for adults who are emancipated from childhood pain. Re-connected adults seek conscious, diplomatic ways to address a foe. Fighting fire with fire is a last resort. Actualised adults needn't brutalise each other or jeopardise humanity’s survival to resolve conflict, but can artfully, consciously, and efficiently convert a disturbance into peace.




The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages