Yet, many of us are not free. We don't have to be a prisoner of our childhood past to have our adult freedom taken away.
If we're honest - many people like you and me are not free of our past.
We "think" we're free. But we're not.
We're run by childhood Survival Patterns (irrational fears) that want us to stay childishly safe. And in the process of staying safe, we squander our freedom.
A definition of freedom is "the absence of constraint of choice".
Meaning, we can make any choice we want.
And while we believe that we have this - the truth is, we limit the kinds of choices that we allow ourselves to make by the ancestral voices of others.
We tend to make choices that limit us.
The choice to stay small. Stay quite. Not speak up. Not shine. Not stand out. To fit in. To not disturb the status quo. The delay our dreams. To procrastinate. To never get started. To think we need the approval of someone else before we get started.
Our childhood experiences are the ones who get in the way of our ability to choose.
What's true is that you could choose in any moment to be free.
But, until we become aware of our unconscious child within survival programming, we will only have the illusion of free will and choice. Why? Because we are allowing ourselves to be run by our irrational fears from the past.
We must no longer desire to simply exist under the rule of an oppressive childhood regime,but bravely chose to confront the false demons of the past.
Today, rare is the person who makes the courageous choice to put their life as they know it on the line and pursue something greater.
Many stay in a self-made prison of comfort, limiting beliefs and old survival strategies from our ancestral past.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages
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