It’s the mark of a ten stager to no longer blame the other person, but instead to see the other person as a mirror of his or her own life.

 When you see the current relationships of your life as not a victim, but as a mirror of your own life, you can begin to take empowered action.It’s the mark of a ten stager to no longer blame the other person, but instead to see the other person as a mirror of his or her own life. It’s the mark of a ten stager to share his or her feelings, rather than blaming someone else for not meeting the needs that were never expressed in the first place. It’s the mark of a ten stager who is strong enough to walk away from a broken and unfulfilled recovery model if his or her needs and emotions aren't being addressed. It’s the mark of the ten stagers to be able to also meet the needs of the child within.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages