T en Stage Recovery is an action, a choice. Recovery is not really an emotion. To recover is to choose to show up to be devoted to our r...
TEN Stage Recovery is an action, a choice. Recovery is not really an emotion.
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The Ten Stages are how we learn to see from a different perspective.
The Ten Stages are how we learn to see from a different perspective. It’s how we learn to improvise and to search for answers. It’s how we...
Receiving the Gift of Lovng Kindfulness 150,000 members growing larger by the moment filling us with a positive message dealing with the roots of addiction.
150,000 members and growing larger by the moment filling us with a positive message and a meditation practice dealing with the roots of ...
Our minds as adult survivors of trauma are similar to a laptop that's been dropped on the floor.
Our minds as adult survivors of trauma are similar to a laptop that's been dropped on the floor. our internal wiring is all over the...
We were created perfect, and despite the inevitability that we loose some of that perfection when we mature and develop in the midst of others who are wounded, we always retain the capacity to become perfect once again
Truth is in our blood. It is the essence of our being. It is the best part of us, the core of what makes us human. It is our child wi...
The brain of adult survivors of abuse is like a laptop that's been dropped on the floor. | The Out-Patient
The brain of adult survivors of abuse is like a laptop that's been dropped on the floor. | The Out-Patient The Ten Stages is a studi...
The Stages Meditation of deep silence | The Out-Patient
The Stages Meditation of deep silence | The Out-Patient
We COULD NOT stop dissociating when we wanted to.
We are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation. Several months ago we started wondering if the defenses we commonly use could possibly...
Dare to be Recovered today !
When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully. When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light. When there is injustice, ...
The Ten Stages deals with Narcissism.
The Ten Stages deals with Narcissism. Which exists side by side with a terrible exploitativeness, a willingness to take advantage of other...
Coming to the end of a Ten Stage meeting always has a special evolving message and this one started to explain the fear,flight and freeze response.
Coming to the end of a Ten Stage meeting always has a special evolving message and this one started to explain the fear,flight and freeze...
I don't mind how it goes.
The goal of the meditational practice at the stages is to calm the mind and bring less attachment to the outside comings and goings of lif...
Our old map we start to uncover
The old map we start to uncover in the stages is supposed to tell us what is normal, but that map was not made for you. It was made to...
They freeze our memory with ice to keep us from remembering......But remember we do.
We the passionate recovered are the raw force of our own lives, and it threatens the still-traumatised and shaming groups – the norm – w...
We don't create that inner connection to our child within which allows a new evolution to take place.
That which we are not conscious of will control us. When we are completely caught up in our ordinary sense of self, there is no chance of...
INTULEXIA cultivating a mindset of no-thought
Awakening to our original nature involves interrupting the ordinary flow of linear, language-based, thinking so that we can rediscover &qu...
The Ten Stages create revolutionary solutions: Drugs aren't the driver of addiction
The Ten Stages create revolutionary solutions: Drugs aren't the driver of addiction , in fact, it is disassociation that drives addi...
Dissociation Addiction Disorders are a set of learned responses and a failure to complete numerous important developmental tasks.
Dissociation Addiction Disorders are a set of learned responses and a failure to complete numerous important developmental tasks. This me...
Why does the ten stages send such a seismic rumble through society, religion, and our families?
Why does the ten stages send such a seismic rumble through society, religion, and our families? Certainly in such a permissive world as ou...
Traditional treatment methods often make the survivor of abuse feel re-victimised.
Issues for the survivor of Dissociation Addiction Disorders, if they are entering traditional treatment for addiction or AA, is that man...
We who take the time to understand our relationship with our child within, who actively seeks alignment with their broader perspective, who deliberately seeks and finds alignment with who-they-really-are
We who take the time to understand our relationship with our child within, who actively seeks alignment with their broader perspective, wh...
It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't liberate ourself.
It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't liberate ourself. And not just our adult self, We're talking about our p...
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our dar...
Connecting to a child within:None of these is you.
"The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and educ...
Todays Healthy Recovery: In the ten stages we learn to communicate with our perfect child within.
In the ten stages we learn to communicate with our perfect child within. You see, when we make someone else a Higher Power in our lives, w...
The Ten Stages can and will change your life. It will introduce you to a stranger, that stranger is you, it will set you free, liberated into your birth right
The Ten Stages can and will change your life. It will introduce you to a stranger, that stranger is you, it will set you free, liberated...
Those of us who have made a connection to our child within into maturity can approach conflict and an enemy in a non-reactive way.
Those of us who have made a connection to our child within into maturity can approach conflict and an enemy in a non-reactive way. When ...
Violence stems from adults who have not addressed the child within and instead seek revenge outside.
We who have not healed our wounds of childhood have a propensity for violence—and live looking for a fight. From bickering with a partner...
Self Worth comes through the liberation of the Child Within.
Self Worth comes through the liberation of Child Within. The perfect conduit for healthy self-worth is an honest person, healed of Childh...
If we were neglected as children, we enter adulthood as self worth-depleted.
If we were neglected as children, we enter adulthood as self worth-depleted. Now we must take the time alone, without the distractions or...
In our relationships it's important to remember where resentment, anger and jealousy originate - within us.
In our relationships it's important to remember where resentment, anger and jealousy originate - within us.We have built walls, killin...
It’s the mark of a ten stager to no longer blame the other person, but instead to see the other person as a mirror of his or her own life.
When you see the current relationships of your life as not a victim, but as a mirror of your own life, you can begin to take empowered a...
The truth is that our finest moments when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled.
The truth is that our finest moments when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, pr...
Living your ten stage recovery takes courage, it just does.
Living your ten stage recovery takes courage, it just does. On the one hand you have your heart, your child within and your intuition nudg...
Fear Based adult ego thinking
Fear-based adult ego thinking keeps us trapped in our comfort zone. There is an evolutionary reason for this. Fear helps us survive in ch...
The child within, once released does not protect our self-deception from our lies our dissociations.
The child within, once released does not protect our self-deception from our lies our dissociations. Our Child Within will not bolster any...
We know the most important thing in life is self-worth
"We know the most important thing in life is self-worth, because if you don't have self-worth, and respect for everything about ...
The pulse of our recovery beats at the heart of our child within and is something that we all know intuitively is our birthright.
The pulse of our recovery beats at the heart of our child within and is something that we all know intuitively is our birthright. Yet, ...
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