We have a core identity our child within

We have a core identity our child within

which is the original person born into the body. Through repeated trauma, if the defences of numbing and dissociation have repeatedly been used, the authentic self, the Child withins, identity may become out of reach and its existence even forgotten. But as long as the body lives, the Child is alive, although parts may be cut off from the Child, or we may have been led to believe the Child has died.

 The Child is the age of the body and usually goes by the birth name or nickname, although that is not always true. mine was or is called Charlie.
It took me a long while to accept the existence of my Child Within. I could not feel him, see him, or hear him inside. Some of my parts were convinced they had witnessed the Child dying. Be aware, this is never true – the Child within CANNOT die, if the body does not die. The Child can experience near death, and be unconscious, but it is STILL THERE.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

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