Landmark 100,000 members of The Ten Stages

The Landmark of 100,000 members of the ten stages acknowledges our Autonomy as a major part of the course. And we have had to come to recognise self-doubt as part of our healing process at the ten stages. As we progressively break from our tribe/tribes on the quest to become a true individual, a part of ourself remains a clone of that tribe in attitude and behaviour. This part does not want to change. It views the world through the sick tribal perspective and hates that the deepest part of us that desires to free our spirit and stand on our own. The weak attacks the strong, and we feel this attack as self-doubt. often mistaking this and describing it as being confused and constantly reiterating old dysfunctional stories.

Our initial self-doubt is painful and unpleasant, but valuable. It is the ever present reminder that the civil war within really is happening, and that this is no imaginary internal conflict. Self-doubt points out exactly who are the opposing armies and defines the relative strength and tactics of each. Self-doubt is the conscious expression of the battle between the true self and the false tribe that you have internalised, and if we lack clarity about our tribes’ deepest motives we need look no further than the cruelty in our own self-doubt. our tribe implanted this self-doubt in us long ago with full intention, however unconscious, of blocking us from progressing on the very journey we are undertaking today. our tribe of today may smile and deny it all, but our self-doubt speaks louder.

As we grow stronger our self-doubt will weaken. But this is not always obvious, because as we grow stronger we will become more conscious of our self-doubt and will hear it more clearly. Whereas in the past we heard our self-doubt unconsciously to the degree that we may have hardly even noticed it and simply followed its orders, now at times it can torture us with its poisoned arrows and roadside bombs. In the past it didn’t consciously trouble us much because we weren’t doing battle with it. we were simply trying to fit in and win impossible love just like our struggled to do as a child. Now you are stronger and realise that if you continue to heed its call it will kill us. So we fight. It is the only way out.



A tribe can be seen as a group of people in a primitive or barbarous stage of development acknowledging the authority of a chief and usually regarding themselves as having a common ancestor.


The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

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• Self-doubt is part of the ten stages healing process.
• Full RECOVERY is a consequence of the full resolution of our traumas.
• Stagers are in the business of becoming free of their trauma.