Their biggest fear was that the fellowship would be some how exposed so they kept the finger of blame, shame, guilt and failure always pointed at us.

Their biggest fear was that the fellowship would be some how exposed so they kept the finger of blame, shame, guilt and failure always pointed at us. As long as we are spinning around in fear, shame, guilt and failure, we will never see them for who and what they really are. As long as we don’t know our true value we will never see that their treatment of us was wrong and that their treatment of us only proved one thing their lack of self-worth. When people treat us as if we are stupid, crazy, frustrating or as though we are less important than they are it isn’t because they think we are stupid, crazy, frustrating or less important than they are ~ it is because they want us to think we are. As long as we are looking at us we will never look at them and as long as we are not looking at them we won’t see the pathetic person behind the abusive, controlling belittling and self-important attitude they often impose. As long as we are busy trying to prove that we are worthy, giving our sick victimising stories that our motive is not for harm, they have us right where they want us; under their spell and We will never recover any self-worth. 





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