Suddenly we recognise we are being treated as if we are crazy, it isn’t because they think we are crazy, it is because they want us to think we are crazy. When we are treated as if we are stupid or some how retarded, it isn’t because they think we are stupid, it is because they want us to think we are stupid. Their purpose or motive for the way that they treat us is actually about what serves them much more than it is the way that they see us. They have motives and it isn’t a motive driven by love, it is a motive driven by the desire to have control. Understanding this makes all the difference in the world in our recovery and in overcoming the false definitions of “me” that had been put on me by others who felt entitled to treat us like we didn’t matter. The ways that we are treated by these others communicates to us that they were more important than we are. Part of the way that they convince us of our lesser value was through the subtle or obvious messages that something was ‘missing’ or ‘wrong’ with us and with our reactions to life.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages
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