Ask our Child Within to show us how we can belong to ourselves.

When we're surrounded by Stagers who believe what we believe and support our recovery, we can thrive.



But when we're surrounded by people who don't share our values or believe what we believe or who are naysayers to our recovery, it is extremely discouraging and leads to depression.



It wasn’t until we realise that we belong to ourself and figured out what our recovery values are, what we wanted from life, what our purpose is , that we found our Child hidden Within.


We are still kind of new to our child we've found. We've known most of our current Stagers for less than a few years, but it feels like a homecoming having them in our lives. We respect each other, we support each other and as Stagers, we belong together.



Sometimes we had to lose ourself to find ourself, It was scary doing this.



We may have to go against the wishes of our parents, loved ones or even religion to follow our recovery.



But our recovery is the Child Within calling you. And once we realise this, we will be finally home - within ourself . Instead of believing what we believe because someone told us so, we will believe what we believe because we have our own life experience on which to base our beliefs.



This is the path of self-realisation - to believe what we believe because we have worked it out for ourself, and to find out what it feels like to truly belong to ourself - and then find our Child Within where we belong.



When we belong to ourself, we are no longer mad at parents or loved ones who don't understand us. We are free to accept them as they are, because we don't need them to see us, because we finally see ourself. We're free to live unconditionally and not let their judgments dictate our path.

Ask our Child Within to show us how we can belong to ourselves. The answers will reveal themselves and our perfect child within and friends, colleagues and allies will emerge.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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