Do you disassociate from your pain? Do you avoid it or go into it?

When we feel PAIN or thought we might feel pain - We disassociated. That means... we wanted to escape - run away. Not face it. Not be of service or see how we could help, no - but instead, run.





When we examine this pattern in all of our life. We saw how our eating disassociated us from our pain inside. How being "positive" disassociated me from the pain we were really feeling inside. We see a string of moments where when we felt pain, We would focus on something else or want to go away, instead of dealing with it.




 We know becoming realised through what we do and teach that we must bring LIGHT to our darkness!




Which means when we feel anger or pain - not to run away physically or emotionally, but to go into it, emotionally and DIG. Investigate. To no longer run away or stuff the pain down, but to go into it and bring the Light of our awareness into the pain so we can transform it.




It was a BIG ONE for us and We are so grateful for it! And we can't wait to see what this brings into our lives!

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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