The dissociated live in great peace. But this is only because we have blocked our negative feelings. The recovered stager resolves our negatives feelings, and thus his peace is not false.
The dissociated do not suffer. But this is only because we have abandoned our healing process and numbed our pain. True Recovery grows from the fertilised soil of our personal suffering.
Being fully dissociated, cut off from our child within calling ourselves recovered. But this is only because we have they have no conception of what recovery is. Recovery is the polar opposite of dissociation.
The dissociated are not easily emotionally ruffled. But this is only because there lies a thick wall buffering our hidden, vulnerable self from the sharp and often honest edges of the world. The recovered are much less protected, but have such a deep core of self-love that they can defend themselves gently.
The dissociated feel we have mastered forgiveness. But this is only because we completely deny the harm done to us – and the damage remaining. The recovered forgive spontaneously and without effort because they have fully embraced their damaged parts and grieved every honest ounce of their misery.
The dissociated are extremely self-confident. But this is only because our self-deceptive armour is impenetrable to self-reflection. The self-confidence of enlightenment is fed by the universal spring of life.
The dissociated gravitate naturally toward leadership roles. But this is only because we are experts at leading ourselves away from our heart’s true course. The recovered leads right to the heart of the matter.
The dissociated have gone through hell to get to where we’re at. But we fail to realise that we’re still stuck right in hell. Recovery is the freedom of emotional integration.
The dissociated feel we have found our true self. But this is only because we equate our true self with no self at all – or at best a false self or ego based on a distorted sense of consciousness. Recovery is the true self linked with the child within.
The dissociated consider ourselves paragons of spirituality. But this is only because our spirits are so buried behind walls of denial that we have no conception of what spirit is.
True Recovery is the passionate spirit of our child within held by the consciousness of.... ourselves.
The dissociated are quite motivated, sophisticated, and convincing. But this is only because we perennially risk returning to suffering if we do not convince everyone of our lies. Recovery brings a motivation to spread the truth that is everyone’s birthright.
The dissociated act decisively. But this is only because we cannot see or question our unconscious motivation. The Recovered are also decisive, but only because we have no unconscious, because in our healing process it, like a now-useless appendage, has dissolved.
Dissociation is contrary to recovery.Behind dissociation lies unresolved trauma, and only once trauma is resolved can the light of consciousness enter the core of our child within.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.
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