First Contact can be painful and unpleasant, but valuable.

First Contact can be painful and unpleasant, but valuable. It is the ever present reminder that the civil war within really is happening, and that this is no imaginary internal conflict. First Contact points out exactly who are the opposing armies and defines the relative strength and tactics of each. First Contact is the conscious expression of the battle between the true self and the false parents influence that you have internalised, and if you lack clarity about your parents’ deepest motives you need look no further than the cruelty in our own first contact.We are annoyed, disturbed and pissed off our parents implanted this self-doubt in us long ago with full intention, however unconscious, of blocking us from progressing our journey of recovery we are undertaking today. our parents of today may smile and deny it all, but our first contact with our child within speaks louder.






The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.