Changing our ways in our recovery by joining self help groups. Only makes us more dissociated and split-off from our deep and churning inner rage and fury

Changing our ways in our recovery by joining self help groups. Only makes us more dissociated and split-off from our deep and churning inner rage and fury and misery and sadness over what has been done to us that We’ll come across like the Best Recovered person in the whole wide world, and We’ll prove to you that We’ve changed. And on the surface we WILL change. We’ll sure seem different. We won’t get plastered and get violent for no reason and puke all over the new carpets and drive like an intoxicated maniac and frighten the hell out of everyone and force others to live with a pink elephant in their living room. No, the only pink elephant left in our life will be the pink elephant of our entire unconscious, which we won’t notice anymore because it will just get in our way. We’ll smile and convince you that we are reformed, even though underneath it all we will still be as deformed as ever.



The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.