True Recovery is in stages a radical acceptance of ourself .

So many people run around looking for something “to complete them.” But the thing is, we are all just fallible human beings, so no thing will ever complete you or live up to your expectations. You were completed a long time ago as a perfect child.



That is why it is so important to keep our eyes looking inward to The Child Within and Its Love for us. The Love of The Child never changes. Other people change, other people mess up, but The Child Within is constantly on our side, Loving us and showing us how we can grow even closer to happiness and Love.





Our aim should be to not seek and chase for recovery, but to BE IT. This means self-love first. True Love isn’t setting HUGE expectations of something else that they always make you happy and fulfilled.





True Recovery is being so full of self-worth and in contact with our intuitive mind that you have more than enough recovery to hold our own darkness and light and the darkness and light of other people. True Recovery is radical acceptance of yourself .



To look for something to complete you is to deny your innate potential to be an already full and integrated being. You are giving something else a power that only you have.



Making someone or something else the source of our fulfilment means that if they are not having a good day, acting in integrity or desiring to grow, then you are stuck. It’s a giant anchor holding you down.





In relationship with ourself,our child within, we either grow together or we grow apart. The Ten Stage program is constantly guiding us to greater and greater awareness of our child within and, as a result, our Highest Potential.



Recovery programs are containers for growth, not containers for proving how much pain you can endure for someone else.



When we make it someone else’s responsibility to complete us, it is easy to blame them, but the blame really belongs on us for giving them that power in the first place.





Let’s take our power back and take our eyes off of ourselves and our partners and remember the Child Within from which we came and which we are all a part of right now. We are a drop of water coming home to the beautiful ocean from which we came. In doing so, we can merge into a wave and do far more connected to this universal child than we ever could do alone or with another person.

How can you take your power back today?




The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.