Change happens one day, one moment, one stage at a time. It's small challenges that add up to a big leap.
The good news is that all you need to do right now is take one small challenge. The tough news is that there's a BUNCH of these small challenges that you need to take to make the transformation into our new reality.
Sorry.
It's not the best news in the world, but what's different is that all you need to do is focus on the next challenge. Not the third challenge, or the 100th challenge, just the next one.
Life is all about just putting one foot in front of the other and taking that decision. That decision is what it's all about. The NEXT one. We are all about just doing the next decision.
We only ACT one stage at a time. It's SO easy to get caught up in the hypothetical outcomes that we never actually take action. We truly believe that inspiration doesn't just come; it usually comes as a byproduct of taking action to acknowledge we have a child within.
It's in the action that we learn and change course. It's in the action that we reality test and see which strategies work and which don't. It's in the action that we become more, we learn, we grow and we eventually make our recovery come true.
We think that this will happen all at once on one magical day. That's not how it works. It's a gradual gentle,trusting, process, and sometimes a slow one at that, because our child within needs to prepare us to relive our best lives. And that sometimes means trials, setbacks and suffering - not as punishment, but as preparation for truly being able to finally understand our perfect child within us.
The BIG goal happens one step, one moment and one action at a time.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.
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