We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it...
The basis of recovery in ten stages is understanding, not blame, guilt or shame.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The basis of recovery in ten stages is understanding, not blame, guilt or shame. First, we need to understand that the abuser must have li...
Automatic dissociation addiction to drugs and alcohol, for the child within, can provide a way to quiet the mind
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Automatic dissociation addiction to drugs and alcohol, for the child within, can provide a way to quiet the mind and the body that they ca...
The most significant triggers from our childhood relationship trauma are adult relationships.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The most significant triggers from our childhood relationship trauma are adult relationships. If our partner, for example, gets angry or n...
The Stages examines Trauma Transference from Childhood
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Transference is when we get triggered by a certain behaviour or circumstance in the present and have an overly large reaction to it that “...
I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself:
Author: Fraser Trevor
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“ I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: ‘If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about...
You’re only regret that you made was... didn't really try to contact your Child Within. Join us every Tuesday .
Author: Fraser Trevor
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You’re only regret that you made was... didn't really try to contact your Child Within. Join us every Tuesday . Do more than...
Child Within grant us serenity of thought
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Child Within grant us serenity of thought, a pure mind, and that our minds be tranquil, without any confusions whatever. The Ten ...
The recovery journey we participate in at the stages is a deep, beautiful process
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The recovery journey we participate in at the stages is a deep, beautiful process because we are no longer running away from the dissociat...
Preparation: • Make a personal Commitment to practicing the stagers silence for a minimum of 10 to 20 minutes daily for 30 days.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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30 day 3x4 Stage Study course Preparation: • Make a personal Commitment to practicing the stagers silence for a minimum of 10 to 20 m...
These are a few simple suggestions for our Stagers at the ten stages who are willing to have an experimental experience with themselves.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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These are a few simple suggestions for our Stagers at the ten stages who are willing to have an experimental experience with themselve...
One of the fundamental messages is that we are not victims, but a co-creator of our life with our child-within.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The most important part of life, and the only part of life that we can truly control, is our perception. We may have influence over other ...
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Stages Child Within Communities are everything.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Stages Child Within Communities are everything. If you want to see a preview of your future, look at who you are hanging out with. This i...
Positive denial of our child within can be very destructive.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We don’t deny the negativity and pain of the past, we just put negativity and pain in the proper context as being miracles for our own growt...
True Recovery is in stages a radical acceptance of ourself .
Author: Fraser Trevor
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So many people run around looking for something “to complete them.” But the thing is, we are all just fallible human beings, so no thing w...
In The Stages Studies We Learn With A Support Network To Drop The “Old Self”
Author: Fraser Trevor
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In The Stages Studies We Learn With A Support Network To Drop The “Old Self” .What We Are Sometimes Calling Freedom/Recovery Is The Re-Ena...
The Ten Stages Study Course is perhaps the greatest human exploration and adventure about rebuilding autonomous self worth.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages Study Course is perhaps the greatest human exploration and adventure about rebuilding autonomous self worth.When we trump a p...
The 10 Stages 'Child Within' Course starting next Tuesday 25th of August
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The 10 Stages 'Child Within' Course starting next Tuesday 25th of August at RANE Middlesbrough - St Mary's Centre 12 a.m ...
At the beginning of the stages’s healing journey we seek to map out our journey
Author: Fraser Trevor
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At the beginning of the stages’s healing journey we seek to map out our journey at first we revert to our traditional contest distraction...
STOP them from controlling our lives. STOP them from driving the bus! Children are not supposed to drive, they are not supposed to be in control.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The cry we hear from deep in our hearts, comes from the wounded child within. Healing this our child’s pain will transform our negative em...
We finally admit that we have a true self our child within that can heal and regain control over our lives
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We finally admit that we have a true self our child within that can heal and regain control over our lives, and that this is the reason wh...
We have to make contact with our child within.When we speak of listening with compassion, we usually think of listening to someone else. But we must also listen to the wounded child within inside us.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We have to make contact with our child within.When we speak of listening with compassion, we usually think of listening to someone else. B...
Messages we gain along the way, basically tell us that we are somehow not all right, not okay.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Our shame comes from what we do with the negative messages, negative affirmations, beliefs and rules that we hear as we grow up. We hear t...
Like any ‘Child Within’, We use whatever ‘verbal childhood spanners’ that come immediately to hand to understand the rage and anger that spews forth from our child within.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Our addictive/dysfunctional behaviour in the past has mystified us – except that everyone, INCLUDING US, can agree two simple facts....
Your reaction is yours to share, and the origin of it, the details of it, are kept confidential.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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To maintain confidence, while still being able to share we who are attending courses have be taught that when talking about the group to o...
Until one acknowledges the child within yourself, you will have great difficulty recognising it in others.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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All of our children within, and yours as well have unparalleled and unique characteristics in many of the ways they express themselves. F...
By seeing and celebrating another’s child within, you open a channel within yourself for receiving creative energy from your child.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We have within us the same essence of consciousness our child within, and that the process of creativity and serenity are attributes of ou...