When we load up a present-day situation with pain from the past, we make the present day reality nearly impossible to understand or resolve.

When we become triggered by a certain behaviour or circumstance in the present and have an overly large reaction to it that “contains” a lot of unresolved pain from the child within. What happened to trigger us indeed may be occurring, but our reaction is more than is appropriate to the situation in the present: it is fuelled by something that is still pulling us from our childhood past. When we load up a present-day situation with pain from the past, we make the present day reality nearly impossible to understand or resolve.

Actually seeing what we may be projecting or transferring our child withins reactions on to another person and lifting our child withins reaction off them can be freeing and healing. It can allow us to see how much our unresolved childhood memory from our past may have hurt us and is still hurting us we will begin to heal ourselves and make what is going on in the present less impossible to deal with.






The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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