Stagers need to approach self-defence in an enlightened manner.

Stagers who have healed their violated child within into maturity can approach conflict and an enemy in a nonreactive way. When a Stager is healed, he or she possesses power, authority, and consciousness to confront the raging child in another with detachment. A conscious Stager can approach a conflict, hear its issues, and resolve the matter in a safe, measured manner. If others become attacking, violent children, then our self-defence needs to remain detached, and not become an excuse to act out unconscious rage in return.  Stagers need to approach self-defence in an enlightened manner.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.