We focus on others to keep from contacting our child within.

We focus on others to keep from contacting our child within. We need to let go of focusing on the other person and start focusing inside to understand what is happening to our child within. Our adult patterns, the people we have been in relationship with, are symptoms - effects of our childhood trauma. We cannot solve a problem without looking at the cause. Focusing on symptoms addictions/dysfunctional behaviour will not heal the cause. The reason that we get involved with people who are unavailable, is because we are unavailable to ourself and our child within.

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  Where we carry unresolved childhood traumas we will replicate them on to our relationships with everyone
• Childhood trauma in any form violates a child at their core.
• Childhood Traumas evokes a thought fog in the child's mind which then perpetuates itself, sometimes indefinitely
• Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical to helping the mind to readjust itself.
• Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical to helping the mind to readjust itself.
• Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical to helping the mind to readjust itself.