Children are born into the world with a total right to have all their needs met.

Children are born into the world with a total right to have all their needs met. This is the responsibility of parents, and although parents have a whole palette of ways and techniques to deny their responsibility and pathologise defenders of the child, this does not change the basic facts. Our Child Within experience torture when our needs go unmet,  it is only because we are taking the deep emotional side of the most disenfranchised minority in our society: the child. The hidden child our child within.

We become so identified with what happened that they stay stuck there; always identified by what happened, and in many cases, we use that identification as an excuse not to grow our consciousness it remains in a trapped unconscious state.