Arriving at the doorway of the ten stages , it takes a while to acclimatise to our primitive stage on life’s healing journey.

Arriving at the doorway of the ten stages , it takes a while to acclimatise to our primitive stage on life’s healing journey.

 This is the contest stage of our un-development. Yes we have a lot to unlearn. This is the stage of our grandiosity, acceptance to the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval by our parents. This parts of us that appears to be winning the contest of life/society.This will stop us before our journey has even begun. Here we deny our deepest traumas so intensely that we fool even ourselves into believing they never happened, and that we are already healed. It is for this reason that dissociation mimics enlightenment.

 Here we idealise the parents, which allows us full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of our past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to. We remain happily distant from the unresolved misery lurking in our guts.

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