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The path to the child within is one of uncertainty, of stepping out into the unknown

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Title: The path to the child within is one of uncertainty, of stepping out into the unknown
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">The path to the child within is one of uncertainty, of stepping out into the unknown and of being able to remain solid even when we don't know what the next moment will bring.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">So many people will never realize their recovery because they place certainty so high in their lives that they never break free and dive deep into the unknown. It's a rare individual who feels the fear and does it anyway. It's an uncommon person who steps out into the unknown and goes ALL IN with their recovery.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">We've come to believe that when we personally take risks on behalf of our recovery that there is great certainty, not through facts, figures, metrics or physical proof, but through the faith we place in our child within. We have come to know that no matter what we will be taken care of, we will meet the perfect people at the perfect time and that right before huge breakthroughs are moments of big time doubt.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">The goal for us is not to shy away, no, our goal is to step out even though we are terrified of the unknown. We are journeyers, we are </span>travellers<span style="font-size: 12pt;">, we are Seekers on a Path into our own child within. We are not promised certainty from the world, but rather from our Faith. It takes a strong person to step out into the unknown, day in and day out, to risk being wrong, to risk making huge mistakes when the stakes are even bigger and to be willing to fail. It takes an even stronger person to fail and then to pick themselves back up and realize that failure is only failure if we give up. Instead, this strong person sees failure as a lesson, as an education and as a test of how much we truly believe in ourselves.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">You see, success on the path to our recovery comes in two forms: the first is being able to keep going when you would normally quit (this is a recovery win), the second being self-realized enough to be free from or at least understand your fear within the child within. </span></div>
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The path to the child within is one of uncertainty, of stepping out into the unknown

The path to the child within is one of uncertainty, of stepping out into the unknown and of being able to remain solid even when we don&#...

A common wayward path that many people take with recovery is to assume a façade of normalcy and family conformity.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: A common wayward path that many people take with recovery is to assume a façade of normalcy and family conformity.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Unconsciously we employ the fantasy that Prince or Princess Charming will save us from all that was wrong in our past, especially our den...

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 Unconsciously we employ the fantasy that Prince or Princess Charming will save us from all that was wrong in our past, especially our denied childhood needs.  This imperfect partner becomes the object of magical rescue or, in time, if the fantasy of magical rescue wears thin, of murderous revenge.</div>
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A common wayward path that many people take with recovery is to assume a façade of normalcy and family conformity.  While all is well on the surface, turmoil roils beneath the surface of their complacent life.  The denied traumas of childhood do not go away, but manifest discretely in emotional compromise, stunted creativity, depression, damaged children, addictions of various sorts, and physical and emotional illness.  These all exist to mute our denied feelings and wounds of our child within.</div>
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We must undergo extensive healing of childhood despair—which we all carry—to not play out our damage in our recovery.  Yet in a world full of compromised liars who make up the norm it is a great comfort and aid to seek truth with an evolved other.  With strong boundaries at our side we often can find great value in co-travelers of our child within—be they friends or perhaps even more intimate companions—who remind us that our journey is real and that our goal is not to conform to the comforts of fellowship sleep, but to grow into consciousness and to fulfil the perfection planted in us at the birth of our child within.</div>
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A common wayward path that many people take with recovery is to assume a façade of normalcy and family conformity.

Unconsciously we employ the fantasy that Prince or Princess Charming will save us from all that was wrong in our past, especially our den...

As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind.
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As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind. We outgrow certain relationships and part company with those who cannot grow with us...

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As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind.  We outgrow certain relationships and part company with those who cannot grow with us.  We seek souls with whom we have an affinity—those who nurture our developing sense of child within and our intuitive voice our deepening wonder at life.</div>
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As we wake up, we leave behind those invested in fellowship sleep and dissociation.  As close as our relationships may have been in the past, our convulsions of consciousness are not welcome to those who remain in dissociated oblivion.<span id="more-172" style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"></span>  Our very presence disturbs them and they retaliate by denigrating the awareness of our recovery.  We must be very careful not to allow other fellowships to deadened our life force to numb our newly-won vitality.  We must guard our precious perceptions and not squander these treasures on those whose defences would undermine their meaning.</div>
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As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind.

As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind. We outgrow certain relationships and part company with those who cannot grow with us...

When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic.
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When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic. We begin to enjoy...

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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic. We begin to enjoy the journey instead of being terrified by it. When we have the mind of a child, we are humble and receptive to new information. We do not let our egos get the best of us, so that we can humbly follow guidance rather than thinking that we know it all. Having the mind of a child is the first step, but once we do, we have now properly mentally prepared ourselves for our journey of recovery. If we enter our journey with our old tainted, jaded and cynical mindset, we will miss many opportunities and improperly label compassion as disaster.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Let us make it our intention to set out into the journey to our child within today with the new mind of our child. Not throwing away what we’ve learned, but learning to reinterpret what we’ve been through so that it serves us moving forward, rather than hold us back. Let us meet the journey from a curious, humble, yet empowered point of view that turns disaster into compassion, rejection into protection and crisis into opportunity.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">You see, when we meet our child within in this new way, life opens up. We begin to let go of what pains us and embrace what sustains us.We understand our childhood trauma. We see everything in a new way and can receive, where before we have fled into our locked room and kept out of life and healing.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">To be humble, curious and new in our approach, but still honor our intelligence will produce the highest form of living. This is the approach that enables us to manifest that which we truly desire.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Let us be willing today. Let us meet today with the new eyes of our child within. Let us decide to be join the adventure and explore our newness today.</span></div>

When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic.

When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic. We begin to enjoy...

We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey.

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Title: We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey.
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We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey. What is a child within ...

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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;"> We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey. </span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">A child is perfectly new, untainted and curious. A child within knows nothing of failure, of heartbreak, of death or other people’s opinions. A child within lives curiously in the present. Let us make our goal to let go of the tainted old thoughts that hold us back. The thoughts that there is no <span class="il">love</span> out there, that our dreams are not achievable, that happy endings don’t exist or that you’re just not supposed to succeed. Let us make it our aim to return to having the mind of our child within. Not forgetting our past, but learning from it and not allowing it to taint our present moment by constantly dwelling on our past trauma.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Let us not know anything of failure and just proceed <span class="il">daily</span> with the intention that we will eventually get it right. Let us not give up in frustration but instead return to curiosity and see everything that happens as a lesson and let us remember that delays are not denials. We must re-make contact to our child within in the structured safety of the ten stages.</span></div>

We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey.

We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey. What is a child within ...

Fear is toxic and very fast spreading virus of the mind in our recovery.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Fear is toxic and very fast spreading virus of the mind in our recovery.
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Fear is toxic and very fast spreading virus of the mind in our recovery. As we get deeper and deeper on into our recovery, we will become more sensitive to other people and their state of being. As we come to recognise the condition of their child within.Our job is to stay aware of our being and notice when we have taken on the thoughts and emotions of others.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Have you ever noticed that you could be having a perfectly fine day and then you spend time with someone whom you <span class="il">love</span> and care for, who may be in a negative and fearful place, and after you're done hanging out with them, YOU feel negative and fearful?</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">That's what we call catching their fear bug. We have let the energy and thoughts of another become our own. And doesn't it almost feel unfair, because they didn't even ask? They just seemed to dump all over you.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">But we see, as we become more aware of our child within, as we step into our own power, this will not change the negativity of the world or of others. In fact, we will become vastly more aware of other people's fear and negativity. But do not fret.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">our job is to become strong enough to see and experience the fear and negativity of others hidden children and, instead of resisting it and calling it "evil" or "dark", to understand it is simply a deep yearning for approval and acceptance. When we understand and know that another's fearful and negative state of being is nothing more than a call for compassion we no longer have to assume their fear or let it affect us. We can simply understand what they are really looking for and send <span class="il">Loving kindness</span> instead of fear back to them.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">When we understand that the fear and negativity in others is a call for <span class="il">Loving kindness</span>, we inoculate ourselves against the fear bug. We have an anti-fear that, through our awareness, transforms fear into compassion within us. This way, we can purge our bodies of the fear of others damaged children within and actually respond from a place that not only helps to elevate and heal them, but also elevates and heals us in the process.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">So inoculate yourself from fear today by understanding the negativity and fear of others is simply a call for compassion and decide that we are going to be the person to answer that call today.</span></div>
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Fear is toxic and very fast spreading virus of the mind in our recovery.

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Surrender in the stages study course is the point at which we try and try and try and nothing we "do" seems to work for us in our recovery.

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Surrender in the stages study course is the point at which we try and try and try and nothing we "do" seems to work for us in our recovery. Maybe we get so impatient, so fed up, so frustrated that we just want to give up and/or let go. OR perhaps we have been in an addictive pattern and life has gotten so unmanageable that we don't know what to do.<br />
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The Surrender Point is a time in our lives when we get sick and tired of letting our ego and fears run the show; we don't know what to do and we just want to give up.<br />
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The Surrender Point isn't just a one-time thing; we can have many Surrender Point moments in a year even. But, we believe there is recovery in Surrender Point moments.<br />
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Our recovery is this...<br />
  Our fears, insecurities and ego have small minded, unaligned agendas deeply hidden within our child. That constantly influence our lives.<br />
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Unaligned? Yes, we cannot think two thoughts at once. We cannot simultaneously think a thought of loving-kindness and a thought of fear. And as a wise man once said, "Loving kindness is what we're born with, fear is what we learn here."<br />
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So flow with us on this thought for a moment. When we let thoughts of fear dominate our lives, we step out of Loving kindness and are no longer in alignment with our perfect child within. So, like a drop of water separated from the ocean, we separate unknowingly from the Loving kindness that sustains us. As a result, our lives, our passion and our hearts begin to become even more consumed with fear. This cycle continues until we hit a Surrender Point. We hit a Surrender Point because the pain of continuing in our fearful habit is finally worse than the pain of changing, facing ourselves and realigning with our child within.<br />
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When we reach a Surrender Point, it should be celebrated. It means that we have finally let go of a lower and unaligned way of living and given in to hearing our intuitive voice within. The wisdom and value in the Surrender Point is that we SURRENDER our fear .<br />
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We step away from our past habits and addictions that have distracted ourselves from ourselves and instead decide to face our child within. Not with fear, but with compassion.<br />
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Surrender Points are painful in the moment, but in the long run we will see them as some of the greatest moments of our lives.<br />
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Are there any habits or addictions that you have that you want to give up?<br />
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How much longer do you want to subtly suffer knowing that you are participating in an unhealthy and unloving habit?<br />
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How much more pain do you want to endure before you give it up?<br />
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We are urging ourselves to take a deep look at our lives and see what unhealthy and unloving habits, addictions and thoughts we can begin to understand in the context of the child withins unfulfilled needs. Not because it's so painful, but because we know that in doing so, we will liberate ourselves to live in harmony with our child within.

Surrender in the stages study course is the point at which we try and try and try and nothing we "do" seems to work for us in our recovery.

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The Ten Stages are studied recovery.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.<br />
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We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives.<br />
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The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation.<br />
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Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our new reality</div>
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For our wounded child within , romance in the arms of a lover becomes a fantasy of rescue.

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Title: For our wounded child within , romance in the arms of a lover becomes a fantasy of rescue.
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For our wounded child within , romance in the arms of a lover becomes a fantasy of rescue.We hope that our unmet needs of childhood will ...

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For our wounded child within , romance in the arms of a lover becomes a fantasy of rescue.We hope that our unmet needs of childhood will be healed at last in romantic love. To us, the perfect partner is actually our perfect, idealised parent in disguise. But when the glow of romance fails in disappointment and our expectations are dashed, revenge begins. The rage of an abandoned child within emerges....the rage and hate materialise from deep within.  The amplitude of this fury and pain and despair all comes from the past. It is a reliving and reenactment of the betrayals of childhood that have been denied. If we are savvy and ready to evolve, we begin to sense that the intensity of our rage and hurt comes not from the present but from the past. As the saying goes, if it’s hysterical, it’s historical. But chances are, we learn little and try again to replicate a rescue with a new love, ever settling for less.romance becomes a reenactment, and also a chance to re-learn<br /><br />As we jump from lover to lover, from one failed romantic obsession to the next, we begin to become aware of our own destructive patterns and begin to see that we ourselves are the common denominator in this recurring dysfunctional play. We play out the dynamics of parental rescue fantasy and revenge, and at times in even uglier ways than do our less evolved counterparts, because we are freer to explore alternative paths of living. But in our freedom we also have the chance to wake up and learn about our patterns. If we are fortunate we will be begin to see the correlation between the heartbreak we feel in the unrequited love of the present and the heartbreak we experienced in the past as children with our first loves: our mother and father. In this way we will begin to become aware of what we are doing, and through this we can mature—and to work toward facing the whole of our historical traumas.<div>
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Knowing that all the limiting beliefs from our family, our friends, our fears and the world will begin to come up once we start to take action at the stages.

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Knowing that all the limiting beliefs from our family, our friends, our fears and the world will begin to come up once we start to take acti...

<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: Verdana, 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17.9400005340576px;">Knowing that all the limiting beliefs from our family, our friends, our fears and the world will begin to come up once we start to take action at the stages. Move through them. This part of the process is where we begin to grow as individuals into who we were meant to be by challenging all of these limiting beliefs and fears held by our imprisoned child within.</span><br />
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Knowing that all the limiting beliefs from our family, our friends, our fears and the world will begin to come up once we start to take action at the stages.

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JOIN the study course AND Repeat these stages.

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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: Verdana, 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17.9400005340576px;">JOIN the study course AND Repeat these stages. Your purpose will constantly get refined. Your limiting beliefs and fears will always come up. Repeat and dive deeper. This will allow you to stay on track. Living on purpose is a lifestyle, a way of being and a lifelong practice that will refine your contact with your child within. This isn’t a 10-day or 30-day plan. This is a lifelong adventure!</span><br />
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Because the Ten Stages examines recovery from new perspectives those of a child within be prepared for the haters and the doubters.

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Because the Ten Stages examines recovery from new perspectives those of a child within be prepared for the haters and the doubters.

Because the Ten Stages examines recovery from new perspectives those of a child within be prepared for the haters and the doubters. One wa...

Emotional abuse of our child within is defined as any non-physical behaviours or attitudes that are designed to control, intimidate, subjugate, demean, punish, or isolate us.

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Emotional abuse of our child within is defined as any non-physical behaviours or attitudes that are designed to control, intimidate, subjugate, demean, punish, or isolate us. Emotional abuse is like brainwashing that systematically wears away self-confidence, self-worth, trust in our perceptions and our authentic self-concept. Recognising how we allow abuse from other people will also help you to see how we continue to "abuse" ourself on an inner level by perpetuating the negative messages that we have heard from others.

Emotional abuse of our child within is defined as any non-physical behaviours or attitudes that are designed to control, intimidate, subjugate, demean, punish, or isolate us.

Emotional abuse of our child within is defined as any non-physical behaviours or attitudes that are designed to control, intimidate, subju...

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The path to the child within is one of uncertainty, of stepping out into the unknown

A common wayward path that many people take with recovery is to assume a façade of normalcy and family conformity.

As we grow in our recovery, we leave others behind.

When we journey to the child within with our new mind set of recovery, in every moment we begin to step into its magic.

We must connect with the mind of the child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of our life journey.

Fear is toxic and very fast spreading virus of the mind in our recovery.

Surrender in the stages study course is the point at which we try and try and try and nothing we "do" seems to work for us in our recovery.

"Turn off your mind, relax, and float downstream."

Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying

For our wounded child within , romance in the arms of a lover becomes a fantasy of rescue.

Knowing that all the limiting beliefs from our family, our friends, our fears and the world will begin to come up once we start to take action at the stages.

JOIN the study course AND Repeat these stages.

Because the Ten Stages examines recovery from new perspectives those of a child within be prepared for the haters and the doubters.

Emotional abuse of our child within is defined as any non-physical behaviours or attitudes that are designed to control, intimidate, subjugate, demean, punish, or isolate us.

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