At the stages we stop becoming focused on what is best for himself or herself

At the stages we stop becoming focused on what is best for himself or herself, instead of the child within. He or she is more interested in how the child withins behaviour reflects on the historical parent voice – We have become more focused in what the child within DOES, rather than who the child within IS. We have developed a needy parent voice that dictatorially takes over our lives scolding and chastising us for being who we really are.