Are you ready to take a quantum leap of faith back into childhood ?
Are you ready to take a quantum leap of faith back into childhood ? Beyond the illusion of the material world we come to recognise an i...
Recovering into Reality:A new treatment paradigm for recovery we acknowledge that Addicts/alcoholics are not born so: we are created.
Recovering into Reality:A new treatment paradigm for recovery we acknowledge that Addicts/alcoholics are not born so: we are created. We ...
The Ten Stages require and are about self-reflection.
The Ten Stages require and are about self-reflection. That’s how we came up with these ideas, and we wouldn’t dare expect anyone to tru...
We encourage students to become real adults by healing the wounds of their childhood.
We encourage students to become real adults by healing the wounds of their childhood. Child-like behaviour is the exact opposite of what ...
When we become tuned in emotionally to child withins feelings, and learn to validate our child's perceptions
When we become tuned in emotionally to child withins feelings, and learn to validate our child's perceptions, our inner child then s...
The greatest problem with long term recovery, and for that matter short term recovery is that of dissociation within groups (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) which mimics recovery
The greatest problem with long term recovery, and for that matter short term recovery is that of dissociation within groups (being split-...
You are in control of your life.
You are in control of your life. Don't ever forget that. You are what you are because of the conscious and subconscious choices you h...
We are not a number on a seat or eyeballs or end users or consumers. we are human beings
We are not a number or seats n an auditorium or eyeballs or end users or consumers. we are human beings and our reach exceeds your grasp....
The Stages do not heal us. We catalyse healing. We the student ultimately have to do the true healing work ourselves.
The Stages do not heal us. We catalyse healing. We the student ultimately have to do the true healing work ourselves. We must consciously...
At The Stages we the truly growing face our vulnerability on a daily basis.
At The Stages we the truly growing face our vulnerability on a daily basis. our existence reads like an open book after one to two sessio...
Defining narcissism as that part of the adult personality which holds the ancient emotional needs that were never met in childhood and which live on anachronistically
For the sake of clarity, I have started to define narcissism as that part of the adult personality which holds the ancient emotional nee...
In the Stages the study course nurtures us with relevant information and practical experience for the sake of our own progressive independence
In the Stages the study course nurtures us with relevant information and practical experience for the sake of our own progressive indepen...
Not everyone will understand our path to recovery.
Not everyone will understand our path to recovery. That's fine, it's not their path to make sense of, it's ours. You are a su...
When we become tuned in emotionally to child withins feelings, and learn to validate our child withins perceptions
When we become tuned in emotionally to child withins feelings, and learn to validate our child withins perceptions, our inner child then...
The Stages is all about developing self empathy.
The Stages is all about developing self empathy. So to counter the harm to our child within of their narcissistic parent’s ways, we have ...
At the stages we stop becoming focused on what is best for himself or herself
At the stages we stop becoming focused on what is best for himself or herself, instead of the child within. He or she is more interested ...
Today we do not sacrifice ourselves on the altar of others insanity!
Today we do not sacrifice ourselves on the altar of others insanity! We protect our recovered self from others viciousness. To not pro...
Bustin the Bubble: depression, failure, misery, and inertia.
Bustin the Bubble: depression, failure, misery, and inertia. Here we wallow in seemingly purposeless pain. The silver lining around our...
Bustin the Bubble: Dissociation is contrary to enlightenment
Bustin the Bubble : Dissociation is contrary to enlightenment. Behind dissociation lies unresolved trauma, and only once trauma is resol...
Busting our bubble we who are dissociated feel we have mastered forgiveness
Busting our bubble we who are dissociated feel we have mastered forgiveness, lots of gratitude lists. But this is only because we complet...
Busting the bubble we who are dissociated are extremely self-confident.
Busting the bubble we who are dissociated are extremely self-confident. But this is only because our self-deceptive armour is impenetra...
When we hear the messages in the stages we become shocked, defensive
When we hear the messages in the stages we become shocked, defensive my childhood experiences weren't that bad because we have bee...
We who have developed dissociation as a method of coping in recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled.
We who have developed dissociation as a method of coping in recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled. But this is only because there l...
To understand dissociation is to understand the confidence tricks of a soporific society
To understand dissociation is to understand the confidence tricks of a soporific society we become are haunted by anxiety and stress of...
When we reboot our software we start to understand that enlightenment is our true nature and our home, but the complexities of human life and our history of abuse cause us to forget.
When we reboot our software we start to understand that enlightenment is our true nature and our home, but the complexities of human life...
In the stages we experiment with our honesty we attempt to re-create the channel of truth between the intuitive voice and mind.
In the stages we experiment with our honesty we attempt to re-create the channel of truth between the intuitive voice and mind. Those of ...
We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression.
We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression. The self wants to expand, exp...
We who are not fully conscious
We who are not fully conscious – that is, parents in denial of any degree of our own buried, unresolved traumas – inevitably traumatise...
Our traumas occur whenever a child’s true self is not witnessed in full.
Our traumas are inflicted on us as children almost ubiquitously on subtle, chronic levels by those with the greatest emotional power to moul...
We, the Dissociated flee intense emotions that spark the trigger of old traumatic wounds
We, the Dissociated flee intense emotions that spark the trigger of old traumatic wounds this involves long periods of dissociation in ...
If we scratch just below the façade of recovery the often false confidence and self-assurance and we find people unsure, unsteady, and afraid
If we scratch just below the façade of our recovery the often false confidence and self-assurance that we find people unsure, unsteady,...
At The Ten Stages we growingly face our own vulnerability on a daily basis.
In The Ten Stages we growingly face our own vulnerability on a daily basis. our existence reads like an open book after one to two se...
Silence not chatter consistently highlights the traumatic underpinnings of our emotional conflicts – most traumatic dynamics from within our family of origin, and most following repetitive patterns over many generations
The stages meditation takes place before and after each one of the stages. The silence consistently highlights the traumatic underpinnings...
What about mild addicts – functional alcoholics
What about mild addicts – functional alcoholics, let’s say – who manage to stay pickled on their four daily Martinis up through ninety y...
The Illusion that leads to addiction explained
The Illusion that leads to addiction explained: Although society and most people – and of course popular music – hold being “in love” as ...
Being in love is little more than the state of transferring onto some new person – your “love object” – all your repressed childhood hopes
The Illusion that leads to addiction explained: Although society and most people – and of course popular music – hold being “in love” a...
For many of us who have spent years in recovery groups we acknowledge that our inability to heal does not stop our unresolved feelings from needing to express themselves.
For many of us who have spent years in recovery groups we acknowledge that our inability to heal does not stop our unresolved feelings fr...
why don’t traumatised people take good care of themselves?
why don’t traumatised people take good care of themselves? The first part of this answer is that when people get traumatised, they get spl...
The Ten Stages is intent on restoring dignity and respect to sufferers from hidden emotional distress.
The Ten Stages is intent on restoring dignity and respect to sufferers from hidden emotional distress. We are adult human beings, with ful...
Denial comes directly from the standard response of any infant to trauma or abuse – “this isn’t happening to me”.
Denial comes directly from the standard response of any infant to trauma or abuse – “this isn’t happening to me”. When We grow into adult ...
We are living in a self-traumatising society hell-bent on not looking within.
We are living in a self-traumatising society hell-bent on not looking within. We have a recovery industry that fails miserably to underst...
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On completing the Stages The child within becomes a new species.
On completing the Stages The child within becomes a new species. Although we still can physically interbreed with others of Homo sapiens...
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